my 11yr old sons behaviour

[cazza54]

what do i do with my 11yr old son who is recking my house by doing stupid things eg:throwing tbags at my wall ,
digging holes in my wall ,putting water in my cat litter,putting holes in my soap powder,drenching all my towels in the bath,these are just a few things he does anyone know if hes alright ? hes good at school

[margypops]

If he is good at school maybe the problem lies at home ,is he bored , does he have enough sports in his life, he could be trying to get attention, it is a fact negative attention is better than none , at least for children Has he siblings that he maybe jealous of ?.

[specialmom]

Hi there.  So, he is doing these purposely destructive things at home but controls himself at school??  Hm.  That IS a big problem.  Is he very angry at you or something?  What kinds of rules do you have at home and how do you enforce them?