My daughter is in her second week of Kindergarten. She turns 5 on September 17th, so is one of the younger kids in her class. She is precocious, learned to read early (3 years old), talked very early (9 months in word combos) and is very curious. Also, very imaginative and does not nap. I had her enrolled in a Tiny Tots program given through our local recreation center. It was three mornings a week, very loosely structured, mostly social based and I am finding out now that her teacher was using negative discipline techniques and frankly, bullying the children in the classroom, including my daughter. I noticed several less-than-awesome behaviors she seems to have picked up or started in reaction to her experience there. My daughter's Kindergarten teacher says she seems very bright but a little immature for her age and asked me to come and observe yesterday because the previous day she was misbehaving. Her teacher said she was getting up and exploring the classroom when it wasn't time to do so, and investigating the pencil sharpener, teacher's desk, classroom computer, etc. When she would tell her to stop, my daughter would ignore her and continue to do what she wanted. She also asked about my daughter's body movements. Sometimes, when she is excited, she throws her arms out in front of her and does what she calls her "silly dance". She does this only when excited, not when she is nervous or upset, etc. After my observation day, I felt relieved, because my daughter wasn't the only child who was adjusting to the new environment and structure of the classroom. Her teacher and I spoke and devised a short-term visual behavior system where my daughter will get a check-mark for negative behaviors and if she gets four in one day, her behavior slip will have a sad face instead of a happy one. Today she did MUCH better, but the teacher said she may want to have an SST meeting, which she says is just an informal way of documenting our actions and helping my daughter succeed. From what I know, SST meetings are used to evaluate behavioral or academic problems, and are precursors to Special Education evaluations. I am fearful she may try to label my child as having ADHD, Asperger's, or some other type of issue. At the same time, if there IS an issue, I want to help my daughter. But my instincts as a parent, as a former GATE student and as a person who was labeled as having "above-genius" intelligence as a child (daughter is EXACTLY how I was as a child), I am hesitant to begin a process that seems to only focus on the downsides of a bright and active child. Teacher says she also wants to document her academic proficiencies (high reading level, etc.). Any advice?