My concern is with my domestic partner's son. He is 4 years old and we're having behavioral problems that are getting a little out of control. His son is displaying anger towards other children, battened defiance, not listening to what is asked of him and lack of respect for his care givers at daycare as well as myself (we're all women). We discovered that he was molested by a peer at a previous daycare, so we've moved him to another. He has tried to french kiss his 11 year old cousin and feel her breasts by sticking his hand up her shirt. He has climbed ontop of my 8 year old daughter's friend while she was spending the night. When his Dad approached him with questions as to why he did it or where he learned it from, he says that he has heard his mother with her boyfriend and he sits outside her door and cries. She states that she had no idea! Just the other night I walked in on him stroking his penis with a stuffed teddy in his underwear. His father wasn't sure of what to say or do... hence my reaching out to you. We are very concerned and looking for guidance. We know that the molestation is an issue, we're getting him into counceling for that, however, is the other behavior associated with this trama? Or is it typical 4 year old behavior? Any assistance would be greatly appreciated!
Thank-you for your time.