My husband and I used to get along well and were truly compatible and happy--before my son came along...My son had colic for the first six months of life and this started the ball rolling for my husband and my marital problems. My son is now four and a half. Although I have tried to keep the marriage strong for the sake of my son (and only for his sake, unfortunately), I know that my son senses the tension in our relationship. I worry that our very different parenting styles and our tension that we have will harm my son in many ways. I have many reasons for not leaving: finances, my son's future, and the feeling of being obligated to this marriage.My husband has been diagnosed with Major Depression but refuses to get therapy or take antidepressants. He loves our son but feels that my way of parenting is wrong most of the time. He will curse and will use "angry tone" of voice with my son, but my son worships the ground my husband walks on.
Am I harming my son for staying in this marriage or helping him by allowing him to live with both parents while he grows up?