My fiver-year-old hates me

[doeyjill]

My five-year-old son has recently been saying awful things to me and his father.  He says he doesn't love us and he wants us to die.  He has always been a wonderful child and very loving.  Nothing has changed in the family, no deaths or divorces.  Everything has been the same.  The sad part about his situation is that he knows what he says is bad but he still says them.  Anybody ever went through this?


This discussion is related to bi polar.

[cheshchesh819]

my 6 year old use to say that to me everytime he says i hate you i just says well i loves you he soon stopped it is all part of the process they hear other children so they copy.

[sammy117]

My son is five and unfortunately they learn all the other children behavior patterns, i would talk to the principal. Rather have them look into the matter because a child learns a parents behavior pattern and can be influenced from other children or people. Some one is influencing him very wrongly.

[specialmom]

My sweet and darling boy who is 5 rides the school bus.  He told me about a gun that shoots 100 bullets a minute today.   Whattttttttt???????!!!!!!!!!  I asked him where he learned about this and he said the boy who sits in the seat behind him on the school bus told him about this gun after he told my son he was going to kill him with it.  They have assigned seating on his bus but my son didn't know the boys name.  I'm not sure if I should call the principal or not about this but I am apalled.  My child is pretty innocent and you don't realize by sending them to school-----  what and who they will encounter.  So my point is------  does your child go to school yet?    

[margypops]

Do you supervise the 12 year old TV watching and any computer, he has learned it from someone and somehwere. I suggest you check out all avenues ,what friends come to the house?

[doeyjill]

I am a stay at home mother of four children so he is not around any other children.  He has two older sisters, ages 7 and 12, and a younger sister, 2.  My girls don't watch anything scary and video games are limited to sports only, soccer, football, etc.  This is why the situation is so disturbing to us.  His sisters love him so much and lately he has been saying things to them.  We don't understand why he has changed.

[margypops]

What does he watch on TV or PC any video games, has he any older siblings, cousins, could anyone close to him being saying anything scary he could have over heard any teen babysitters? I dont think a 5year old would talk about dieing unless he as heard about it, so check that out and be aware of other folks he is around.