So my son has been in daycare since he was 13 months old. For the first year and a half it was just 3 days a week, and since September of this year full time. For the most part he has been happy, and with starting a preschool program has been just thriving. No behavioral issues beyond the normal odd push/shove routine, and twice in the whole time has bitten another child. Drop off has always been a bit of an issue, but to reassure myself I have snuck back several times to see and he was happily playing. There are even days when I pick him up that he wants to stay and play longer.
Even with two full time working parents, he gets lots of attention. My schedule is flexible enough that I can be home with him when he is sick always, and am also able to attend any and every event the school puts on for parents, so I am quite involved. Evenings and weekends are all about family. My husband and I very very rarely go anywhere without him. His teachers say he is a bright, healthy, well adjusted child.
In the last few weeks he has been telling us he doesn't want to go to school. When I ask why he'll say things like "Victor hit me" or "Lincoln is mad at me" things like that. When I ask him who his friends are, he lists a few kids and says' he likes to play with them. When I spoke to his teachers, they tell me there just hasn't been any issue while there - he is the same happy kid he usually is. He's normal - he has his tantrums and his moments, but he is not one they see as a challenging child.
So what could be the issue? Is this a normal thing for a child to go through? He says he wants to stay home with me, but in the past, sometimes even on a Saturday he would ask if he could go to school. Is it common for a child this age who has been in childcare to go through a clingy phase? I'm not sure how to handle this...I want to reassure him, but unfortunately, not working isn't really an option for me. THoughts?