I am in need of some serious help,
I have a blended family, i have an 8 yr old son from a previous marriage and my husband has a son age 9 from a previous marriage. We have been together for 6 yrs and had 2 children together on a very tragic december day our home caught fire and my youngest son passed on. My 8yr old son was at school when everything happened and i was unable tto see him, because i was in the hospital,My ex husband told my son of his brothers death by allowing him to watch every news broadcast covering the story. Reading news paper articles to him about "HIS MOM DANGLING FROM A WINDOW TO SAVE HER SON". My son came to me traumatized, i had to rebulid everything, new schools new home, dealing with the death of our son. Meanwhile my ex husband decides he don't want to be a dad for a period of time. Making me clean up his messes,To witch my husband steps in and takes my son under his wing.My son started calling him dad,everything was happy My son is excelling in school is adjusting to the new life and we pulled together as a family. My exhusband all of a sudden pops back into his life when things are going good for the first time in the better part of a year, to create a whirlwhind of things. Now my son is claiming that we beat him with belts,we starve him, he wants to live with dad fulltime, i threatened him if he tells teachers and therapy personal, i have drugs all over my home,( my son didn't even know what drugs were) till his father explained it to him, I WANT TO CLARIFY ALL OF THE ACCUSATIONS ARE FALSE, My family is my life since the passing of my son i have learned to not take life and family fogranted i would never beat,spank,starve or threaten not just my son but any of my children! Now i have to go defend myself on this in court on an emergency xparte order that was granted. What do i do? Dcyf is coming to court in my favor, but why is my son saying these horrible horrible thing's? What can happen to my other kids if he don't stop making thigs up with his dad.please someone help me.