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sexual questions please help

I really need to know where to go with this. My neice started when she was around 2-3 yrs old. We found her with all her clothes off on top of my 5 yr old. And he saod she woildnt get off of him. My children are very sheltered when it comes to this conversation but things keep repeatedly happening . I have 3 other boys and she never does it to them . Recently one of my other children came told me they were in the closet sexing and we question both of them my child said they were just hugging and my neice said that he told her to suck his penis but she always blames him but we ask questions to investigate..I have recently asked again about the incident with my 7 yr old son who is very modest and doesnt like to be naked in front of people or have anyone in the bath room with him about and he said she took her clothes off and wouldnt get off of him...and we asked her y she is saying landon did that cuz hes telling us a different story and she said rusty her dad that is not around much anymore but she just recently spent two weeks with him is telling her to say landon did it when things like that happen. So we started asking her questions about does ur dad tell u not to tell on him and she said yes ...cuz that is what she told my child in the closet not to tell on her....then she also told us that her dad is hitting her in the face for nothing holding her mouth shut with his hand and hurting her privates..she is saying that he squeezes them amd puts meds down there when they dont need any there..she has in the past always complained of her vagina hurting
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Thanks the investigation is in process ...
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480448 tn?1426948538
I third that!  This behavior is coming from somewhere, as kids that young wouldn't know to engage in specific behaviors that an adult would.  She's either been abused, or has witnessed something inappropriate.
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189897 tn?1441126518
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Completely agree with mark.  Make that call!
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5914096 tn?1399918987
You need to phone child protective services as it really sounds like your niece is being or was sexually abused.  How are such young kids engaging in these behaviors if it didn't happen to them or if they haven't seen it occur?  Something is or was going on that clearly needs to be investigated by the authorities especially when she complains of your vagina hurting.  

You don't need any proof of wrong doing to phone CPS.  Just tell them your concerns.  It is their job to investigate the situation to determine if any abuse is taking place.  Protect your niece and make that phone call ASAP!
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