help my daughters being dirty

[cluelessmother899]

I need help my daughter hates having clothes on if she can get away with being naked she will and recently shes started playing with herself n snogging her dolls but the worrying part is my cousin who works alongside kids with adhd says my daughterrs got adhd but I try and take her to get checked and they say shes not old enough she also wont stay in bed and walks into my room unannounced even though im only ever watching tv I find it very intrusive shes going to nursery soon and im worried about  her behaviour she tantrums non stop bites me her brother and her dad and is forever lying ontop of her dolly which is wrong because I dont know where shes getting it from she also love mushing food in her hair and kicking and watching herself wee on the potty if anyone can help would be much appreciated feels like im banging my head against a brick wall noone will help oh and social services told us aload of rubbish shes 2 and we try to set bounderies but a 2yr old doesnt understand

[ROSYouralright]

SORRY...NOT *CPS* > * SOCIAL SERVICES*

[ROSYouralright]

Every child is different. You cant compare your daughter to your son. At 2 years old she is going to "just walk into your room." It takes a lot of guidance on our parts to teach our children these things. Also at 2 she has had to have seen the behavior somewhere or she wouldn't know how to "snog her dolly," Also I'm curious as to what the "load of rubbish" was that CPS told you guys? I would schedule an appointment with her pediatrician immediately and be completely open and honest with her about all aspects of your situation so that she will know how to proceed in helping your daughter. It doesn't sound like something you should put off any longer than you have to.

[cluelessmother899]

Well I cant pay outta pocket as I dont earn a lot and my little boy never did any of this he never walked into my room or got ontop of his  dolly

[AnnieBrooke]

Two year olds will always walk into your room unannounced, this is so normal that it really doesn't mean anything.  The rest of it, see the doctor and ask where she can get assessed.  Pay out of pocket if nobody will do anything for you under your health plan.  It will be worth it for your peace of mind.

[MarkLakewood3367]

Have you discussed any of this with your daughter's pediatrician?  That is where I would start.  At least this evaluation should point you in the right direction.