sorry he wouldnt tell us his name beacuse he didnt want any one to get in trouble
He told us that he was shown this at school, he would tell us the childs name that taught him this,
They should have a block on porn on the Computer, it is normal behavior for a child of this age to be curious as he was shown by an older child, did you find out where he was shown it, at whose house ,as although it is normal it would be better for the PC to be either out where all can see it or Blocked. He also needs more supervision he is very young to be allowed to have this much access alone with the Computer,
i know they should have access to computers esp if they have internet on them, that what i tried to explain to my husband. but since he was younger hes dad alway let them have the internet and never really would check up on them because he trusts his kids, my sister in law is only 10 years old and she has her own computer and everything, i guess becasue they trust her to have it as they should shes a very great kid good grades and everything. my step son is good in school as well but has more of a hard time, to stay still after he finishs school. is it right for my husband to want to change schools for his son, to take him to a new environment with new children.
I think the mother handled the theft of money very well - having him return it himself. I think most kids at some point steal something, hopefully this will put an end to it and he's learned his lesson.
I also think it's quite normal for an 8 year old who's been shown how to look up porn on the computer by an older child, to try it out himself. That's why 8 year olds shouldn't have access to a computer that isn't in a very public place all the time.
If neither of these things become a pattern, he sounds pretty normal to me.