#year old son suspended from daycare!!Ahhhhhhhhh

[obsmommy]

My son will be 3 years old in two weeks his behavior has gotten out of control a  week and a half ago. When the teacher tells him to do something he dosent want to do he takes his clothes off and walks around in a pullup. He has peed on the floor on purpose, he flips chairs, takes his shoes off, he slapped the teacher today thats what got him suspended director wants me to have him evaluated but i dont  want them to put him on meds. I just dont know what to do anymore ive tryed everything. He relly is such a sweet loving boy i dont know what happened this past week. This is a two parent house hold also dad is very active in his life. Oh i forgot now he is also having tantrums in the street where he gets spaghatti legs this also just started. Please give your opinion it is greatly appreciated

[margypops]

Dont allow the fighting with an older cousin any more ,it sounds as if he was 2 year old and it going on its not good he is learning negative behavior.When he misbehaves at home have time outs they do work .good luck

[RockRose]

Okay,  so what you're saying is this is a little bit more of an escalation in his normal personality,  not a complete change.  He is acting out a bit more,  in  a little bit different way,  than he has been acting out before.  

I do have to ask,  why did you post your first question the way you did,  so completely inaccurately?

[margypops]

Its the fighting with older children that could be a cause of his behavior ,it is know that rough housing can be learned and he in my opinion is acting the way he has been taught.No children of 2 years old do not fight with an older child .This is your reason hes copying ,ask the Doctor about it ....

[obsmommy]

let me be a little clearer he has always been rough hes big for his age. he play fights with older cousin as boys do just never towgrds an adult. he was defiant but still a sweet boy it was never this bad. definitely goin to call his doc tomorrow. thanks

[margypops]

I am astounded the teachers allowed him to do all that ..thats so weird ,I would say if he has just started this behavior something has happened in that time to upset him .

[RockRose]

OB,  he definitely needs to see a pediatrician if he's gone from a sweet,  loving calm child to a child who is defiant,  violent,  so much that he's been kicked out of daycare in one week.  

I can't even imagine what physical condition could cause a child to do that,  for a week and a half,  when previously they were a different child.