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Conception date advice
Firstly apologies for this long winded post, I am at my wits end and need some advice!
Ok, so my baby is due on 6th May (the closer it's getting the more scared I am) my problem related back to conception/early scan/dating scan!
Here goes.....
My LMP was 30th July 2015
On early hours of Sat 8th Aug I foolishly/drunkenly let another man finger me, whilst he was playing with himself (sorry tmi) it was a silly mistake at a party and I regret it so much as infidelity is not something I agree with at all! (Bear this part in mind for the scan dates to follow)
I slept with my BF on 13th August 2015 (the only day in a period of one month due to him being overseas) he didn't finish though! (Which leads to more confusion)
I found out I was pregnant on 14th September 2015 and was sent for an early ultrasound due to past problems! My scan was on 17th September and sonographer said I measured 5 and a bit/6 weeks! I could clearly see a little heartbeat also! When I count that back it takes me to possible conception being the 8th August, would you agree?
I know this sounds ridiculous because I didn't actually have intercourse with the other man but i have the fear that perhaps he may have had sperm or even precum on his fingers when he touched me and this is what's lead to pregnancy!
I am distraught at the fact I am even doubting this, any help or advice would be appreciated x
Ok, so my baby is due on 6th May (the closer it's getting the more scared I am) my problem related back to conception/early scan/dating scan!
Here goes.....
My LMP was 30th July 2015
On early hours of Sat 8th Aug I foolishly/drunkenly let another man finger me, whilst he was playing with himself (sorry tmi) it was a silly mistake at a party and I regret it so much as infidelity is not something I agree with at all! (Bear this part in mind for the scan dates to follow)
I slept with my BF on 13th August 2015 (the only day in a period of one month due to him being overseas) he didn't finish though! (Which leads to more confusion)
I found out I was pregnant on 14th September 2015 and was sent for an early ultrasound due to past problems! My scan was on 17th September and sonographer said I measured 5 and a bit/6 weeks! I could clearly see a little heartbeat also! When I count that back it takes me to possible conception being the 8th August, would you agree?
I know this sounds ridiculous because I didn't actually have intercourse with the other man but i have the fear that perhaps he may have had sperm or even precum on his fingers when he touched me and this is what's lead to pregnancy!
I am distraught at the fact I am even doubting this, any help or advice would be appreciated x
Yep you are majorly over thinking things:) had you sex with the other guy i would say of course there is reason to worry as i do know how you feel because im in the same position except worse i did have sex with another guy on 15th july while me and bf were spilt up but got back together not long after and ironically enough i also got a due date of may 6th at my first ultrasound on 24th of september which is why i replied to you haha i had a period on 31st or 1st of august so i shouldnt even be worried but i cant help it cus i love my bf so much and i keep thinking what if the baby just didnt grow for the first month!? And the period was actually implantation bleeding?? But ive been told a million times thats stupid, my due date was changed at my 20 week scan to 27th of april though so baby is 9 days larger which scares me but apparently my first ultrasound is most accurate so im just trying to stay positive x
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Hey sorry I thought I had replied to this but I can't see my post, goodness knows what's happened to it!
Sorry to hear you are in the same situation, I 100% know how you feel! It's the worst! I think you are definatley safe though as a conception date of 15th July would give due date of approx 7th April! x
Sorry to hear you are in the same situation, I 100% know how you feel! It's the worst! I think you are definatley safe though as a conception date of 15th July would give due date of approx 7th April! x
Stop freaking out you honestly have no reason to since you didnt even have sex with the other dude and a due date of of may 6th puts conception at around 14th of august, congratulations!
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Really? You honesty think I'm over thinking things? I am losing sleep over this and making myself feel like I'm going insane x
Really? You honesty think I'm over thinking things? I am losing sleep over this and making myself feel like I'm going insane x
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