Don't know who the father is I need help ??!!

[Pooh1267]

I had sex with my boyfriend on July 25th, 26th and 27th of 2015. We end up breaking up and I end of having sex with someone on July 31. My last cycle was either July 17th or 18th. My boyfriend nutted in me those 3 days straight and the other guy pulled out. I just had my baby 3 months ago April 21,2016 but my due date was suppose to be April 23rd. I just want to know who could possibly be the father of my child? This is very embarrassing and stressful and I just need help on when I became pregnant.

[AnnieBrooke]

Unfortunately for easy answers, it sounds like you conceived around August 1, and both guys' sperm was (or could have been) alive in your system at that time.  Withdrawal is not really a method of birth control, a guy can have viable sperm in his urethra that gets carried into the woman's body in his pre-ejaculatory fluid.  Your boyfriend who had lots of sex with you prior to August 1 might have a slightly better chance, but it only takes one sperm to reach the egg.  

You need to do a DNA test with both guys.  Contact the family courts in your area of jurisdiction and get a list of labs approved for doing DNA tests for purposes of proving paternity.  No point wasting the money on a drugstore test;  you are going to need a legitimate answer for child-support purposes.  

[Pooh1267]

I'm just hoping that my boyfriend is the father we already doing DNA testing. I'm just waiting on results.

[AnnieBrooke]

Good luck!  If the test comes up negative and you did a drugstore test, go to a lab certified by the courts and re-test before you believe the result.

[Pooh1267]

Thank you so much! And we did the lab test we just waiting on them to come back.

[AnnieBrooke]

It could be either guy.  When were you first told a due date, and was it determined by an early ultrasound?  

[Pooh1267]

I was told September 1,2015 that I was 6 weeks

[Pooh1267]

And on September 1st that's when they told me my due date would be 4/23/16 but at first they told me my due date would be 4/22/16 in August when I was 5 weeks.