Help!

[yulid0201]

(long story im sorry)

I had a boyfriend back in november of 2014 and we planned on having a baby and we tried and tried but nothing ever happened. Which ended up with us fighting and breaking up! I got my period in december and in january ! 2 weeks before entering into february i met a guy and things got wild and we eventually had sex and that lead to us having sex ALOT of times! I found out i was pregnant till february 18 ! And i believe that my boyfriend now is the father but i have doubts into thinking that my ex could also be the dad! My boyfriend doesnt know about this and would kill me! But tbh i would be so glad if my boyfriend wasnt the father , hes not ready and things have become very abusive between us!
Any stories similar?!

[AB_0915]

If you are 20 weeks then it's your current boyfriend. I'm 25 weeks. I got pregnant New Years.

[Tavi12]

If you are 20 weeks you would have gotten pregnant around the second of February to the 7th of February

[yulid0201]

Thank you all for your time!! I will be sure to take all of the advice to mind! Its just alot of pressure with all of these crazy hormones!

[ashley_july123]

If your last intercourse was with ex in Nov and you got your period in Dec. And Jan. That's a no brainer.. Your now bf is the baby's dad

[Jessybell2012]

Yeah I'm 23 weeks tomorrow and conceived in early January also!

[chillax321]

U say u met these boyfriend 2 weeks before January, he's definitely got to be the dad without a doubt if ur 20 weeks because I conceived early January and will be 23 weeks on Sunday

[dree4224]

When was the last time you had sex with your ex. Because it seems to me that if you had sex with your now bf the end of January it seems you would be a little less than 20 weeks. But I could be wrong

[liz2541]

Im kind of in the same situation. I didnt try with my last boyfriend though we just werent compatable anymore. But the current boyfriend is most likely the dad but I feel ya on that part too. You have to remember your the mom and you make the final decision no matter what. Its cool if you try to make it work but make a plan b now. Save money and put it away, if u have to live with a friend or family member if you dont have your own home do that. Just remember if you truely are afraid that he is too abusive or he wont step up, you dont have to put his name on the birth certificate

[yulid0201]

Yes thank you for all of yalls time!
Im 20 weeks pregnant !
But i will sure get a DNA test

[maw4389]

Doesn't sound like it's your ex's since you had a period in December and January.

[xojensen_]

Have you been to the doctor yet? They should tell you how many weeks you are? That should help since you do have a two month gap between the guys

[Mrs2Blessed]

C

[Skyesmummy2010]

It would depend on how close you had sex with your ex and your boyfriend, if you had sex within 2 weeks of each other then there would be a possibility that either of them could be the father. However a DNA would be the only accurate answer.

I think you may need to reconsider your current relationship tho, if your in a abusive relationship then you need to step back and leave. It's a very dangerous place to be.