Helpppp please :(

[ChristineM117]

Hi on sept 16, I had my last lmp, on
Sept 24 and oct 6th I had sex with guy a! Withdrawl method that lasted a few mins with no ejaculation at all.
On sept 26th,28th,30th and oct 2 I had intercourse with guy b. he absolutely did ejaculate in me!
Where I'm really confused is my fertility window, if I had ewcm for one day (sept30th) just for a few hours for the first time ever, does that narrow my fertility window and make it less than five days? And how common is it for sperm to really survive for five days?
I also had two early ultrasounds one was
Nov 4th 7w1d at the emergency room
Nov 11th 8w0d dr office!

[ChristineM117]

Thank you I'll try not to worry about it, it's just really tough to not even think about it though!

[AnnieBrooke]

Honey, urination taking away sperm from the urethra probably doesn't come into play here.  Asking about urination seems like a waste of time here.  The guy did not ejaculate with you, has he ever said he had just climaxed before you and then he peed before having sex with you?  I mean, what are the chances he had just had an orgasm, and what are the chances he will even remember those details correctly now?

Your most useful info in your story is that ovulation, based on your early ultrasounds, was around the 29th or 30th.  The guy on the 24th is much less likely to be the dad because of that, not because "it only happened for 3 minutes."  

It does not sound like you intend to abort the baby if the "wrong guy" is the dad, That means doing a test for two thousand dollars now would probably be a waste of money better spent on baby things, unless you are so totally stressed you can't live through the pregnancy without knowing. The likelihood (not guaranteed) is that the guy from the 24th is not the dad.

[ChristineM117]

Do you know the likelihood that urination will take away sperm from the uthera? And what are the chances of getting pregnant if it only happened for about three mins and he was pushed off? His was the case for incident 24 and the 6th

[AnnieBrooke]

Well, it's VERY costly to do a prenatal test.  If a woman has the money and does her research so she doesn't fall afoul of a lab who won't give reliable results, I'd say go for the test.  But it might be better to save the money for the things the baby will need.

[ChristineM117]

Thanks for replying! Do you think it's necessary or should I just wait it out till after to ease my mind, one knows the other doesn't

[AnnieBrooke]

If both guys know there is a question, you could do a prenatal test if you can afford it.  Be careful to use one of the companies with a good reputation.

[ChristineM117]

Ok thank you! I'm just trying to figure out if I should do a prenatal test, I would feel horrible having a baby shower and everything with guy b if he is not the father

[AnnieBrooke]

It sounds like you conceived on the 29th or 30th of September.  While it's possible that sperm from the first guy (on the 24th) was still present in your system, it would not have been very lively.  With the second guy, you have a whole lot more chances, since you had sex on the 26th, 28th and 30th.  The sperm would have been more active on your ovulation day since it would have been from more recent sex.