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Who is the father of my baby?

I will be 12 weeks pregnant on Friday.  I had intercourse with my ex-boyfriend on June 23rd I am almost certain I had my period 3 days later and then I had intercourse with my new boyfriend on July-10th.  I am concerned that the baby may be my ex's instead of my current boyfriend. If I counted correct from June 23rd til Sept. 15th would be 12 weeks excatly and I would only be 9weeks if I got pregnant on July 10th.  I have not had a ultrasound  yet my doctor just checked me and I have not told him my concerns about my ex-boyfriend being the father. Could I have had a period 3 days after intercourse and still be pregnant since I do believe I had a period at the end of June.  My period in May was on the 30th so would I have even been fertile around June 23rd anyway? I am so confused and don't know if I should tell my new boyfriend about me and my ex having sex or not in fear that he may leave me. What should I do and who do you think the father is?
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I had sex on my period march 23rd then had sex April 2nd through the 6th the sonogram I had done on may 10 says I was 6 weeks and one day my due date is January 2nd did I conceive in march or April

Thank you
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3147776 tn?1549545810
Hi - this is a very old thread (from 2006).  The best way to get an answer is to start your own thread.  Just hit the "back to community" link at the top of this thread, then click the "post a question" button at the top of that page.
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Hi Im 21 and i have A 3yr old daughter i have went thru 4 dna test and waiting on another, i have a very hard time trying to remember who i had sexual intercourse with i had a bad past so please dont judge me, nobody wants to take a dna test and wont tell me if we had sex around that time, i really need help, & i thought about going to a physic because i dont know if my heart can take anymore bad results, shes a beatiful girl and she deserves to know who her Father is, i hate that ive done this to my daughter but ive always had a problem with memory i use to be on patches for it. This is Slowly taking all my energy..i honestly feel like i cant cry anymore tears.im drained.Advice Pls!
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134578 tn?1693250592
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If they said she was 17 weeks based on an ultrasound, there will be a little bit of margin for error.  Had she gotten an ultrasound at 7 weeks, it would be accurate for dating to within one or two days but at 17 weeks there might be more variation from the average.  Given that, the conception calculator says:

First day of last menstrual period:  October 24, 2012
Probable date of ovulation:  November 7, 2012
Possible dates of conception:  November 3 to November 11, 2012
Due date:  July 31, 2013 (40 weeks)
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This girl had sex with a guy who cam in her on nov.10th, 2012 and on the same night she had sex with another guy and.the.condom.broke and he.cam in her also. She.went to the doctor friday 22 feb.2013  they said.she was 17weeks. Ans due date.is july 31. is it one.of thesse boys baby or.some one prior to them. please help
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Yes sirree, Stinky.  I'll answer you in a new post.
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