conception question!

[jlove93]

I had my period on July 31 2012. It ended on august 5th2012. I had sex with a guy on august 2nd while on my period without protection. On august 9th i had sex wit a different guy without protection. On august 28 2012 i went to the doctor and was informed that i was pregnant. Any idea on who is the father.

[AnnieBrooke]

It does seem like you are on the right track.  I'm glad the guy who looks most like the father is also someone who is also not being problematic about taking the test.  Good luck!

[jlove93]

I think its the second guys baby. Almost sure. He's willing to take the test. He actually wants it.

[AnnieBrooke]

Well, *did* you have sex on August 4 with guy number 1?  (Your post only said August 2nd.)  There is never any 'certain' until you test;  ultrasound numbers are based on averages, but if you really ovulated on or around the 12th, even if the sex with the August 2 guy was really on the 4th, you are probably in the realm of the second guy.  What is the reason you are needing to feel certain the DNA test will prove the dad is guy number 2, if he is willing to take a DNA test?

[jlove93]

Even if i had sex on august 4 with guy number one..could that effect anything. Is it ok to feel certain that a dna test will prove guy number two is the father

[AnnieBrooke]

Oh, sorry, I see that you already noted your ultrasound information.  Here's what the calculator says.  If your cycles are regular, it just seems like an almost impossible chance that it would be the August 2 guy.

First Day of Last Menstrual Period:  July 29, 2012
Probable Date of Ovulation:  August 12, 2012
Possible Dates of Conception:  August 8 to August 16, 2012
Due Date:  May 5, 2013 (40 weeks)

[jlove93]

my first ultrasound was at 4 weeks and the second was at almost 6 weeks i think

[jlove93]

My cycles are pretty regular. I get my period around the 30 of every month. My doctor gives me an ultrasound every time i visit him. My first due date he gavee was based off of my period. That due date was may7 my second ultrasound gave me the due date of May 5

[AnnieBrooke]

If you do a paternity test once the baby is born, it will be definitive (unless the guy has some way to scam the test, like having his friend provide the sample.  I assume you will use an approved lab and have the test done in a controlled setting.)

It's possible to get pregnant right after your period.  How are your cycles?  Are they super regular?  Guy #1's sperm can live in your system a few days, but in the scenario you're concerned about, you would have to ovulate by the 7th or 8th for his sperm to still be viable.  If your periods are shorter than 25 days or irregular, that's a possibility.  However, guy #2 is much more likely to be the father, because of the timing.

Have you had an ultrasound?  If so, at what point in the pregnancy, and what due date did they give you?

[jlove93]

Is it possible for me to have gotten pregnant right after my period

[jlove93]

if a paternity test is done with the guy i had sex with on the 9th could the results come back negative

[jlove93]

I just wanted to be almost sure because i was thinking it was the guy i had sex with on the 9th

[mamapanda123]

Looks to me like the guy on august 9th based on what you said. Sperm can live up to 5 days in  a women's body. From what I have heard the chances of get pregnant on your period are pretty slim.

[peaches421]

Probably the 2nd guy. Most likely u got pregnant while not on ur period

[jlove93]

May 5 based on early ultrasound and May 7 based on last period

[missymay34]

When is your  due date?