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no judging ... babydad issues.. help!

This is so embarrassing, OK so my baby is 9 days old... but there's a problem.. there's two possible father's I think... Okay my last menstrual cycle was November 25,2013.. I have 31 day cycles.. I cheated on my babydaddy (I think) with my ex on December 7.. I was tipsy, we did have unprotected sex but he pulled out and released on my pelvic area.. on December 15 I had sex with my babydaddy (I think) trying to get pregnant... I was ovulating on this day, according to my ovulation calendar.. my conception date was December 16th and my due date was September 8... is there a big chance that my ex could be her father?
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134578 tn?1693250592
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And you learned this absolutely undisputable fact from whom, an app?  

Thing is, paisley, unless you were having blood draws and ultrasounds every day, you would not know for sure when you ovulated.  But even if you think your fertile window did not start until the 11th, that does not let off the hook someone with whom you had unprotected contact on the 7th.  Sperm live a while.

All I'm saying is, if you are trying to get child support, be certain by a DNA test that you are trying to get it from the right man.
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My fertile window didn't start till  the 11th thou..
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134578 tn?1693250592
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I think it is a good idea to have a DNA test, you are not stupid to do one.  The conception calculator I use puts both guys in range.
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Please help!!!!!!
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Anyone?????  Help please
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It won't cause any drama cause babydad hasn't done anything for her anyways and we aren't together.. but Im trying to put him on child support
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I am getting one but im just curious and I don't wanna look stupid
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No i dont think so his little men were long gone by then if your not sure you can test but that could cause a lot of drama
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Get a dna test it's to close together.  I slept with my ex 3 to 4 weeks later after my boyfriend and still need a dna test.
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8730486 tn?1400035632
Get a DA test...
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