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Had sex on sept22. Her due date july 22 help!

I had unprotected sex with this girl september 22. Her due date is july 22. But she had boyfriend at the time. I remember her texting me like the 1 or 2nd week of october saying that she started but i dont really trust anyone. Lol. According to her calculations she got pregnant the 3rd week of october. Any chance im the father? Im super worried about this..
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I have not tried contacting her. I guess its hard for me to understand cause im a guy hahaha. I guess my mentality is, when you have sex it takes about a month before conception. And since it wasnt quite a month i was worried Idk i also figured if she was worried about who the father was, Shed contact me about the concerns.  So conception is when the sperm meets the egg right? And since it was 3 weeks before conception im good? So why when you count back from the due date it ends up being the 3rd week and not the 29th of oct? Maybe cause an average of 40 weeks but technically 38 weeks?
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4456827 tn?1363378247
Yea I am past confused of why that confuses you. She clearly had sex around that time and that is when she conceived. Nothing complicated about that.
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4774515 tn?1359650004
I'm not trying to be mean by any means but I'm having a hard time understanding why it stresses you out the whole concieving the 3rd week in October :) if you didn't have sex with her that month I don't think you are the father. Have you at all tried contacting her to ask if that will help ease your mind?
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Okay i understand that. But why does it keep counting back to the 3rd week in october?  Shes 24 weeks this week. I understand the conception calculator ive done it a thousand times lol. Im freakin out here
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4774515 tn?1359650004
I just put in her due date on the my pregnancy app and it is saying her conception date is oct 29...since you only had sex with her in september and she got her period in october I think you are in the clear. Plus if you were the father her due date would be about a month sooner.
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Idk.  The whole thing. When i counted back it brought me to the 3 rd week in oct. which leaves like 3and a half weeks to spare. I guess i got that month mentality
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