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Who is the father

So I'm pretty panicked. I had sex with someone on March 26th but we definitely used a condom and I regret it so much, tbh I completely forgot about it. I got my period 3 days later on March 29th, and from what I remember it was a full period, cramps and all. And it was about 7 days like usual. After that I had sex with my boyfriend several times without protection and he would ejaculate inside me. I missed my period at the end of April so I took a pregnancy test in the beginning of May. I had an ultrasound when I was 8 weeks on May 24th which was a dating ultrasound. My due date is January 3rd which the doctors got from my last period date. But when I did my ultrasound at 8 weeks the technician said the dates matched up. I also had another ultrasound 4 weeks later and they never said anything different same when I had one at 19 weeks, no one has changed my due date or anything. Is there any possible chance that the guy in March could be the dad? Any chance at all? Or would the doctors have told
Me if my baby looked bigger? I'm worried because they're not the same race and my boyfriend doesn't know.
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Hi, I feel you pain, I'm also going through the exact same thing and everyday I feel sick with nerves and deeply regret what ive done. It sounds like your dates are adding up, especially if you used a condom and your period came as normal just 3 days after. Early scans are typically more reliable too. I wish I could take my own advice and say it all points in the direction you want it too but I know how much your mind is probably going crazy thinking of the 'what ifs'. Good luck anyway and I'm here if you want to chat. Tbh im in the exact same boat and need all the Reasurance I can get x
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No, it sounds like you conceived around April 12 or so.  Try not to worry.
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