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Is she lying about being pregnant
So, me and this girl I meet had sex the first time we met and I never came inside her at all. Well, a week later she tells me she is pregnant. She tells me she went to the health department on the 6th and 7th day after we had sex and took a test(3 test all together), she says that all the test came back positive on the pee pregancy test they give you there. I don't doubt she is pregnant but it can't be by me cause things just don't add up. She was also telling me before hand that she wanted me to get her pregnant so I took extra precautions not to and I'm almost positive I never got any sperm inside her. She also keeps flip flopping, she says "I don't know if I will keep it" and I say it's probably best you give it up for adoption seeing how she is still in school and they she flips back right after I say that and goes "Im gonna keep it. All in all I don't think she is pregnant, well at least by me. She says she had unprotected sex 2 months before we had sex and stick pregnancy test detect up to 6 weeks. It's really stressing me out.
When i had my last bby i had intercourse on a sunday and had symptoms of p re gnancy the next sunday. On the monday after i got symptoms i took a urine pregnancy test and it came out NEGATIVE, it was too early. I took a pg test everyday after that and obtained a positive a week or two after.
Good thing is, I didn't answer back just looked and deleted it but you are right. I will definitely be blocking her now.
COMMUNITY LEADER
I get from this that you didn't block her. Wish you would stop playing the sucker. Your problem, though. I'd forget it, let her wait and see. Stop being curious about what she is going to pull next, let it sit.
COMMUNITY LEADER
She just sounds like she's trying to put the zap on your head. Don't let her. Good luck!
This has bee really helpful. She has told me not to tell people cause she doesn't want it getting out so I haven't been able to talk to anyone about it.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Just write her a real, physical letter (the kind that you send in the mail) saying if there is a baby in nine months, you will be glad to do a DNA test at an accredited lab, and that in the meantime you are going to block her. Read and send no more texts, have no more phone calls, do no more "trying to explain," you are just playing her game.
I tried to explain to her about the pregnancy test and how blood test is the only one that can test early and thst only after 10 days and that she didn't need to contact me anymore and all she said back was "we will definitely see in 9 months:)." I think she will try to do everything she can not to get a dna test cause she got kinda made when I mentioned one. I'm thinking that once I sign away parental rights before the baby is born that's admitting that it's mine and I can't do anything after that, I think that is what she is hoping for.
I got a text from her last night saying that she talked to legal advisors and the best thing I can do is give up my parental rights. I feel like she is making plans really fast to only just have gotten pregnant.
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That's actually getting kind of comical. You sound like you have fallen into the hands of a drama queen. Just tell her that you will see her for the DNA test in 8 months, and then block her texts until 8 months from now.
COMMUNITY LEADER
It sounds like she wishes it were yours, not that it is yours. Coming up positive on a urine-based test does not happen as early as 6 days after having sex. If this is really bothering you, go with her to her next doctor's appointment and explain what she is claiming and ask what her due date is, then go home and put it into a due-date calculator online or just count back 266 days from that date. It sounds like she was already pregnant when she had sex with you, and might even have sort of known it, based on her comments at the time about wanting to get pregnant. Yes, it is possible to get pregnant from pre-ejaculatory fluid, but no, it's not possible to get a positive on a urine test that fast after the sex. If she won't stop bugging you, just tell her that you will see her when the baby is born for a DNA test.
Oh, and also, use condoms. Pulling out is not a method of birth control, it's just a hope and a prayer, and it does nothing to protect you from STDs either.
Oh, and also, use condoms. Pulling out is not a method of birth control, it's just a hope and a prayer, and it does nothing to protect you from STDs either.
That's what I thought cause I looked up everything I could and did a lot of research. I even told her about it and she still swears it's mine
Hi, since a blood test can show pregancy about 10 days and urine about 7 after that we are looking at about 17 days for a posiitve urine test so it would not show positive in 6 days, the baby needs to be attached to the mothers blood to show up in the body,
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