Well just in my opinion you did say you are hispanic. Hispanic people are a mix of so many people that we cant base paternity on skin tone.
My mom is super dark.
My dad is white.
I am pinkish beige or light beige
One of my brothers is yellow white, the other is light brown, and the other is super dark brown. Me and my brothers are related by both mother and father.
Plus you had a period after sex with the other guy.
Take care of yourself, that is so important especially now because your life is not your own any more, it is devoted to raising another human being well. Definitely a counselor, and some exercise, and good vitamins too. Good luck!
Thank you AnnieBrooke and 201603!!
I know I need help my doctor did recomend when I had found out I had post-partum depression to get a therapist. I think I will start to look for one. I never in my life thought that I would go through a situation like this so I do need someone to talk to when am feeling anxious!! And I know that those results are correct I need to go on with my life. Thanks again both of you!!
Hi girl I myself had a test with ddc... Well a prenatal test and got the exclusion I had hoped for although it makes sense it's the doubt that gets to us... U did a post birth test so those are way more accurate... Ddc is the company used by many courts so I'd trust the results...
The other guy is right, you need to move on. You had a period after sex with him, and you got a DNA test that excluded him. If you let yourself think about it logically, you probably know he is not the dad. You're just dancing in a fear spiral instead, for whatever reason.
Let's work this out. You behaved contrary to your values and had sex when you were in a relationship with someone else, and you lied about it. This is bothering you a whole lot. Not the results of the DNA test. So, work on the thing that is really the problem, because I promise you that even if the guy took the next test and the next, you still wouldn't be convinced because that was not really the problem in the first place.
So stop looking on the Internet for stories proving the test might have been wrong, or making up stories in yorur head to convince yourself you didn't really have a period after the sex with the guy. And stop looking foolish by begging the guy to test again
What you should do is talk to a counselor or therapist to figure out what your psyche might be thinking it will accomplish to feel guilty all the time. Tell your boyfriend you have post-partum depression, and go see a therapist, and dump the situation on the therapist's couch. Yes, you did something wrong, maybe you aren't used to doing something wrong and having to suck it up with no one to say it is OK. But if you love your boyfriend and intend to be with him until this child is an adult, the shame is something you will have to carry with you without dumping it on him.
If you are the kind of person who believes in punishment and is compelled to atone, atone by making him the happiest daddy in the world, forever. No more talking to anyone else, forever, be happy to be with him and your baby and tell him how much you appreciate him. As long as he is this child's dad, he should have no reason to regret being with you. That is a trade a lot of guys would take.