Please help

[Tinababy1234]

I had sex while I was on a break with my boyfriend with my ex boyfriend around the 29 of May he did no buss  in me he did on my bum , me and my boyfriend later got back together this sounds really bad 2 days after from the 31 he was bussin inside of my everytime we had sex the doctor said I conceived on June 3 that would make it my boyfriends baby right ? Because I had sex with my boyfriend the day before

[AnnieBrooke]

No, sweetheart, I'm a lawyer.  I've been answering questions on MedHelp for 7 years, and took on the DNA/Paternity forum when they created it because people on the other forums can sometimes get pretty heated up when someone writes in with this problem.  There is an ultrasound tech who reads and writes on the site and I've checked some of my assumptions with her, to make sure that they are medically correct (such as, whether an ultrasound machine's computer adds two weeks at the front end the way doctors do, when computing weeks of pregnancy.)  MedHelp is written, when it comes down to it, largely by volunteers.

[Tinababy1234]

Thanks for the help & if u don't mind me asking how do u no so much on this stuff are u in the medical field

[AnnieBrooke]

No ultrasound can tell you absolutely that one of two guys was the dad when you had sex with both very near your (computed) conception date.  By the ninth week, ultrasounds can be two or three days off, making either guy a likely candidate.  The guy pulled out, but sperm can be in pre-ejaculate, and he ejaculated in the area.

You say you have had sex with your boyfriend for five years and never used protection and never got pregnant, and say this shows that you don't get pregnant easily.  While it might show that your boyfriend does not get women pregnant easily, it does not prove anything about your ability to get pregnant or not. (Only if he has lots of children and you have had unprotected sex with several partners and never gotten pregnant would it be suggestive of yourself having a problem getting pregnant.)  

I'm sorry, but I don't see that there is any way for you to know except by having a DNA test.  They can be done (at high cost) before the baby comes, or at about a tenth of the cost after the baby comes.  I'm sorry there is no other answer for you.

[Tinababy1234]

Also I had my first ultra sound I was 9 weeks and 1 day on August 23

[Tinababy1234]

Okay so I just want to give u more back around on my situation I still think about it . Okay so I have never in my life gotten pregnant before And my boyfriend has been bussin inside of me for 5 years . god has now choose to bless me with the blessing of carrying a child and I'm so thankful .  Knowning that I don't get pregante easy and that guy A pulled out for sure and that guy B always finishes inside and I got pregnante the day after I had sex with guy B . And my days of conception was June 3 and my due date is feb 24 prevent wise how liking do u think it is guy B and always knowing that my days of ovulation was the day after guy A all the way up to the 7 of June how liky do u think it's Guy B .

[AnnieBrooke]

Your boyfriend has the better chance, because he ejaculated within your body often.  The other guy is not off the list, though.  You're just going to have to live with things the way they are (in other words, to live with not knowing) until the day comes that you get a DNA test.  Again, I'm really sorry.  I hope it is somewhat comforting knowing that your boyfriend's chance of being the dad is the stronger chance.

[Tinababy1234]

Im so scared I pray to God it's not the other guy in so scared

[AnnieBrooke]

If any of the first guy's semen got to your vagina, the sex with him could have produced a baby, and certainly the sex with your boyfriend could have.  I'm afraid you are going to need a DNA test to know.  I'm sorry there is no other way.

[Tinababy1234]

A lot the ovulation calader said I was most likely to conceive between May 30 to June 7