"I've had a sleep disorder since I was a teenager"
"TV helps me dream, the silence keeps me up"
"I self-medicate with beer"
"Sometimes, I feel crazy..."
"No, I don't remember what I said/did..."
"I didn't get abusive (i.e. say very hurtful things)"
"Brother died when I was 12 and 'they' say I tried to kill myself afterwards with pills. I locked myself in my room and learned how to play the guitar, trying to remember everything my brother had taught me about chords" (incredibly talented musician who claims his brother's death was a 'trigger' for his 'problem' AND musical talent)
"And you call yourself a psychiatrist" (No, I never called myself a psychiatrist, yet HE says this to challenge me everytime he is upset and almost out of control. I took it as a challenge because it finally dawned on me, once I could get beyond my own anger/reaction to him, that it was his way of asking me for help).
"sssshhhh..." (His answer everytime I bring up the idea that he needs to get checked for a possible bipolar disorder - not the type that requires hospitalization. He fits every description of cyclothymia in terms of the symptoms, but I'm not an expert).
Sometimes angry and paranoid.
75% of the time, loving and sweet
25% of the time, mean and nasty (usually after drinking - but he drinks to control his moods - self-explanation. I tend not to think of is illness as directly responsible for behavior, but it is definitely part of his behavior.
Both parents were medicated all their lives for unknown reason. Mother is deceased, but father shows signs of depression (apparently life-long). Mother was very protective of son and seemed to understand that he had a problem. She was hospitalized for an 'anxiety attack' after friend was born (one of several required hospitalizations in her lifetime).
Has first cousin with autism/bipolar and a nephew with autism. Several other family members have drug problems or suffer from depression (self described). All family members incredibly talented, gifted in music - along mother's family genetic history.
Is this sound like it could possibly be a tertiary bipolar disorder (cyclothymia, according to what I've read)? Any suggestions? I need help in getting him into a psychiatrist. He claims he has seen several and was listed as 'noncooperative.' At the moment, I'm trying to get him past the stigma of mental illness and to let him know that I don't think any less of him.
Any comments or suggestions?