Hi,
Age: 27 Male
Symptoms:
Since early childhood into adulthood being unable to connect with anyone and being overwhelmed by other people, this is the main cause of concern as I have not had a friend for most of my life or been in any relationship.
I was also very emotional in Childhood 1 - 9yo, crying very easily etc
Mid teens - present
Void of emotions except for feelings of mild nagging sadness, I also have been told I have no emotional expression.
I also have Ongoing ideas of reference but only when in public and when stressed, I do realise that the thoughts are illogical but the feeling of being watched and misshearing other people thinking they are talking about me, but once I am at home my head clears and I never think about it until I go outside again or if people are loudly speaking outside my window.
I rarely go anywhere anymore other then work and grocery shopping, I would characterise myself as an extreme homebody.
I work in a call centre and have done so for 5 years Althogh I am able to hold down a job I work out of an extreme need for being financially independant.
Recent problems
Extreme boredom, apathy, poor attendance at work and drinking to get drunk every Friday night at home, I will usualy consume approx 6 - 8 beers every friday.
Pysilogical:
I would define my self as having an ETbody shape drooping unmuscular chest, thin arms, and large gut ) I have never been pyscially active, I am 6 ft 6 my medical disorders are strabismus and CAPD
co-ordination is quite poor (not being able to cath a ball or play sports, I have also been told I bounce when I walk and in my early childhood I did not swing my arms when I walked, I now do but am concious of it.
I would define myself as average intelligence although some people say I am above average but that is more due to the way I speak, my grades were good during grades k - 6, however I left school at age 14 due to problems of being bullied and finding myself incompetant at English and Maths.
I have researched my symptoms and think I may have a form of Autism or another non-verbal learning disability, however I would like to know how to be able to connect to other people and have a social life as this boredom is becoming annoying, I am finding myself eating the wrong foods, drinking allot of coffee and smoking 25cigs a day out of boredom. I also feel like I have been trapped at the age of 14 and have not continued to grow.
I have also had problems of emotional and pyshical abuse from my older siblings, ie being beaten up everyday and made fun of constantly for taking things the wrong way and being bullied during highschool.
For you freudians I have had very early sexual experiances, my first was teh age of 5 or 6 with another boy opf the same age involving oral and anal sex, when I was 7 I was used by my 14 year old sister and also engaged in oral and vaginal sex.
I have never had sexual relations with anyone else since then and now am A-sexual