I am male, 25. I have a job (which pays Ok but I really hate), I have a girlfriend of 19 months who I love, and have a loving family (who I live 120 miles from).
For as long as I can remember I have been a very stressful person. Little things will provoke a big reaction from me. I thrive on extreme feelings, there is very little middle ground with me: I either love something or hate it.
I am extremely paranoid. I assume the worst of every situation until proven otherwise and I find it difficult to trust people. I expect people to eventually do me wrong. The only people this does not apply to are my parents.
I have immediate worst case scenario thoughts about anything that happens. e.g. if my other half goes to her friends house for the evening I assume this is because she has gone to discuss how bad our relationship is and how she is going to break up with me. I even imagine the conversation that will take place when she returns home.
I don't sleep very well. I have 3 or 4 what I would term "nightmares" every single night of my life. I don't recall ever having had a positive dream. Explosions, kidnappings, terrorists, volcanoes, burglaries, car breakdowns, my family in danger, inability to perform sexually, failure on stage (I am a musician), how I have let my family down (they are very religious and I am not), intense feelings of being lost and late. All these are common dream themes. I have many recurring dreams.
I stress about everything. I get a pain over my heart area. Sometimes 3 times a day, sometimes I won't have one for 3 months. I get myself really worked up about things I have no control over.
I have a very bad self image. I am convinced I am ugly and very fat (I am slightly overweight at 16 stone and 6ft3) and that I am generally in the way because of my size. e.g. I won't go swimming because I am convinced that people are getting annoyed at my splashes and that they are talking about me.
I don't really feel depressed although I am starting to realise that I may have a problem. Until recently I was convinced that everything I felt was normal. However, last week I got myself very worked up about how my girlfriend was about to break up with me. This went on for several days and I ended up having several dizzy spells.
I quite often have a brief (couple of minutes) feeling of complete desperation and helplessness. This usually passes after a few tears. I find this a great release.
Everything I feel is just normal now cos this is how I always remember it. I have no idea whether to do anything or whether just to get on with things. I feel very strongly about people wasting medical professionals' time and don't wish to do this.
All thoughts would be GREATLY appredciated.
Cheers