i am 31, single, but have been having ED for a while, since i was a teen. i am a lot more confident in myself now, but as a teen i used to reckon i was ugly. and i used to wank like most teens but then i used to like let what people and girls saying i'm ugly get to me and it kind of messed up my sessions. so i didn't really have much sexual confidence at the time. now i am different, i'm a lot more confident in myself as an adult. but there still is the problem. I was having sex today actually, but then i couldn't get fully erect, nd i'm thining now enough is enough. I am to be honest a bit scared of doctors, but then i need to go since we cannot have it all. and not to sound crude, but fully erect i believe i am quite large, and this gives me an ego boost. i am on the dating scene, and when i'm in a relationship don't want this to come up. i've had tests done before, and there was nothing physically wrong.