Aa
Can it just be an excuse
I have been married 9 years and my husbands excuse for us not having a sex life if low testosterone and not fully getting erect all the time. But it more seems to me he would rather watch porn and masterbate, or have dirty chat and pic exchange from other girls met on sites like be naughty. And now recently he just went for an adult mutual touch bodyrub and denies it, like every other situation he gets caught in. Does anyone know the extent to what happens in these massages and how far most men go with the mutual touch in them? Feed back would be greatly appreciated. Need alittle help easing the mind. He has never been denied sex at home and has been able to anytime he wants or can. I am also not an unattractive person and am fit and take good care of myself. And have also been very good to him. I just don't understand why he'd rather either take care of himself with porn, or take it to the next level of mutual touch bodyrub. Sometimes subspissions of cheating with other girls, but never been 100% sure.
He doesn't have a problem from what i can hear..He has a porn addiction. It can ruin relationships when the man pics the porn over his paartner. Because it feels like cheating to the partner. I think he has desensetized his mental stimulus so much from porn use, thats why he is seeking more stimulus and more....I think if he can quit and reboot his brain, you both will be fine and he will realize how lucky of a man he is to have a lovely wife. I am going through this myself currently and we are in the reboot phase.
Good Luck to you!
Good Luck to you!
He's not afraid to talk about that, as far as I know. And you'd think he would be more worried if it didn't happen with someone else He don't know at all.
Yeah but in relations with him he has not had any problem. He also takes testosterone shots weekly for this to keep his levels up. I have never noticed a problem with full erection while on these shots and his drive seems high enough to seek other satisfaction.
If he won't talk to you, take him to a therapist. He is hurting his relationship with you by withdrawing. He may have performance anxiety, but he should be comfortable enough with you to work on it together. As why he is so reluctant. Tell him there is no pressure for a rigid erection cause there are other things besides intercourse.
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