collapse erection at point of insert

[yuppiee2]

I get regular erection, as soon as I touch her, an erection comes... Hard most times... By the time I want to insert my penis, the penis goes flat. Most other times, the erection goes flat after I have tried to finger her to make her wet... What is it??

[yuppiee2]

thanks for your advice. i have started it already. i will do it for a week and give you feedback.

i was already thinking of going to see a urologist. but let me see the "baby steps"

[Dalubaba]

It takes minimum half an hour to recover arousal. For some it takes more time for others like younger ones, it takes less time. So wait for half an hour before you try again.
Baby steps;Keep small goals. First just keep penis near her vagina as long as you can. Do not enter. Do this for several days. Next step  can be keep your penis head inside as deed as you can do easily. Splitting up your goals will help you. Ultimately, you will reach your goal of full intercourse. This technique depends on your partner's cooperation. you can masturbate her after each session if she wants.This something like reaching your goals gradually.This is recommended by sexologists.

[yuppiee2]

Thnk you. I hope to reduce my anxiousness to 'satisfy' her...  This morning, I penetrate easily as she helped me to insert... But while I was trying to delay expulsion of sperm, my penis got "tired" and came out.

Also, To get another erection is hard for me, as I go hungry after first round, why?

[bobdylan1958]

Hi i know what you are saying , but don't think that you have to perform your best , try not to think staying hard , try and relax it's not a race , take care ,

[yuppiee2]

Actually, I rush tinx, because I  am afraid, the penis will go flat if I delay.

[bobdylan1958]

Hi are you rushing things , plenty of foreplay is the answer , is your partner stimulating you enough ? , take care ,