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need help Please.
Hello everyone,
I did not see a correct place to put this, but this was the closest i have gotten. As for my problem, i am 15 years old, and im having problems with my penis, its kind of hard to explain, but it goes into my body when its not erected. I have read about sex issues and changes and such but i know for a fact, i am a man, because i ejaculate through my penis. I am wondering whats wrong, if its any help, i am overweight, i ejaculate atleast once a day, i smoke marijuanna every now and then but not on a daily baises. Also, everyone has seen porn every now and then, and when men ejaculate it has a large range and lots of it comes out, whats happening to me is that, my full load, is sort of like pre ***, but recently, my ejaculations have been larger and more white, but my penis is still the same, my penis is around two inches and its very embarrasing in sexual situations. I need help quickly as i plan on losing my weight and losing my virginity, but it would be too embarasing in my certain state. i would not like to go to my doctor for the obvious embarasment reason and the fact shes my doctor for ALL of my family. Any help is greatly appreciated. and please respond quickly.
I did not see a correct place to put this, but this was the closest i have gotten. As for my problem, i am 15 years old, and im having problems with my penis, its kind of hard to explain, but it goes into my body when its not erected. I have read about sex issues and changes and such but i know for a fact, i am a man, because i ejaculate through my penis. I am wondering whats wrong, if its any help, i am overweight, i ejaculate atleast once a day, i smoke marijuanna every now and then but not on a daily baises. Also, everyone has seen porn every now and then, and when men ejaculate it has a large range and lots of it comes out, whats happening to me is that, my full load, is sort of like pre ***, but recently, my ejaculations have been larger and more white, but my penis is still the same, my penis is around two inches and its very embarrasing in sexual situations. I need help quickly as i plan on losing my weight and losing my virginity, but it would be too embarasing in my certain state. i would not like to go to my doctor for the obvious embarasment reason and the fact shes my doctor for ALL of my family. Any help is greatly appreciated. and please respond quickly.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello.
First of all, stop worrying. You're fine. Your body is still changing during the process of puberty, and your penis probably has not yet grown to its final adult size.
Here’s some information about penises:
Almost every man who writes to me is concerned with penis size. The fact is that size has nothing to do with pleasure—or with any other aspect of sex, for that matter. Most penises erect to between 4-6 inches, there is tremendous variation on how they look when not erect. The size of an unerect penis is not related to its size when erect. Please don’t fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others or to men you see in sex videos. All of these men are hired simply because their penises are much larger than the average. The sooner you stop worrying about size, the sooner you can begin to enjoy sex as a positive and wonderful part of your life.
And worrying about how much semen you produce is fruitless. This has nothing to do with sexual satisfaction. In fact, as you’ve noticed, you’re now beginning to produce semen, along with the fluid that your body produces just before orgasm. This comes from the Cowper’s gland, and its sole purpose is to lubricate the urethra (the tube which expels both urine and semen).
You state that you’re worried about your penis, and yet you don’t want to see your family physician. Now that you’re entering adulthood, you have a responsibility to take care of your body and to learn about its responses. In the future, you will want to consider seeing your own special physician. However, I want you to know that ALL physicians keep patient information confidential, and once you are an adult, your family doctor would NEVER reveal anything about you to anyone in your family.
After you finish growing, if you’re still worried about your penis, I encourage you to see a urologist who can examine you and tell you if you have any medical conditions. In the meantime, in order to learn more about your body, I highly recommend you read the book “The New Male Sexuality” by Bernie Zilbergeld, Ph.D. It’s widely available in paperback and is an invaluable resource.
Also: Why do you feel the need to rush into having penis-vagina sex before your body has matured? Wait until your body finishes changing and you become more comfortable and more confident, as well as ready to take responsibility for risk reduction and birth control. I guarantee you it will be worth the wait. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
First of all, stop worrying. You're fine. Your body is still changing during the process of puberty, and your penis probably has not yet grown to its final adult size.
Here’s some information about penises:
Almost every man who writes to me is concerned with penis size. The fact is that size has nothing to do with pleasure—or with any other aspect of sex, for that matter. Most penises erect to between 4-6 inches, there is tremendous variation on how they look when not erect. The size of an unerect penis is not related to its size when erect. Please don’t fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others or to men you see in sex videos. All of these men are hired simply because their penises are much larger than the average. The sooner you stop worrying about size, the sooner you can begin to enjoy sex as a positive and wonderful part of your life.
And worrying about how much semen you produce is fruitless. This has nothing to do with sexual satisfaction. In fact, as you’ve noticed, you’re now beginning to produce semen, along with the fluid that your body produces just before orgasm. This comes from the Cowper’s gland, and its sole purpose is to lubricate the urethra (the tube which expels both urine and semen).
You state that you’re worried about your penis, and yet you don’t want to see your family physician. Now that you’re entering adulthood, you have a responsibility to take care of your body and to learn about its responses. In the future, you will want to consider seeing your own special physician. However, I want you to know that ALL physicians keep patient information confidential, and once you are an adult, your family doctor would NEVER reveal anything about you to anyone in your family.
After you finish growing, if you’re still worried about your penis, I encourage you to see a urologist who can examine you and tell you if you have any medical conditions. In the meantime, in order to learn more about your body, I highly recommend you read the book “The New Male Sexuality” by Bernie Zilbergeld, Ph.D. It’s widely available in paperback and is an invaluable resource.
Also: Why do you feel the need to rush into having penis-vagina sex before your body has matured? Wait until your body finishes changing and you become more comfortable and more confident, as well as ready to take responsibility for risk reduction and birth control. I guarantee you it will be worth the wait. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
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