Have you had more tears since you last posted?
In the last 3 months I have had 2 tears and a macular pucker. The exam with the first tear showed that I have numerous thin spots. And yes, I do wonder why me. A lot. My fear is that I am going to experience a tear every month and eventually go blind.
Before I went into Ophthalmology I was a general practitioner and I had to give a lot of young people bad news. The two most difficult questions in Medicine (and in life) are 1. WHY ME? and 2. WHY NOW.
Sometimes there are answers (smoking and lung cancer), sometimes something predisposes (high myopia and retinal detachments) and sometimes its just plain bad luck.
I would get at least two other opinions from different retina surgeons about your options and your situation then go with the majority opinion or with the surgeon you feel best about.
You can find additional retina MDs at www.aao.org
JCH III MD