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LuB & ((HUGS))
LuB & ((HUGS))
i have been wondering the same thing, my mom said that maybe thats what it took, was getting pregnant to show my body what its suppose to do and thats how we did it on our own....im sitting here crying btw, i am so happy.......i think we need a new thread =)
i always wondered what this day would feel like......its indescribable!!!!! im in AWE and more then anything i am so glad and PROUD to be sharing it with all of you!!!!!!! and to think, the day before yesterday i was sitting here thinking of how i was going to word that i needed some time away from here, to focus on getting healthy, focus on me....start planning our move (yes we are moving in about 5 months....) and when i would post yesterday....but instead, He had different plans and WOW!!!! thats all i can say....WOW
Chris and I were talking the other day about our frozen snow babies and then we aatarted to wonder if maybe the pregnancy has stretched out the blockages from my tubes. We were thinking how amazing it would be to just end up pregnant without a room full of Dr's assisting. You and Jason have given us hope that it may happen later down the road for us as well.
i cant believe this, how amazing is this!! i swear, i never wanted to believe anyone that said, just give in, just let it go, dont focus on getting pregnant and yet i did it, WE did it and look.....all by ourselves!!!!!!! im so speechless and happy and nervous and would like to know, how far am i!!!!! i wish this would happen to EVERYONE!!!!!! everyone that truly deserves it!!!!! this is the most amazing feeling knowing that we used medical help and yet, here we are, after being told, you cant on your own, we did this on our own!!!!! no timing, no counting days, no head stands, no waiting around afterwards......WOW!!!!
The Lord is AMAZING and so so GOOD!!!!!
The Lord is AMAZING and so so GOOD!!!!!
Krista - I agree with Amberlee - no matter where the eggs come from, you will be that Childs mom...as for Murph, men don't really know what to say in this situation, they don't always think before they speak...he loves you and wants you to be happy I am sure! keep your head up lady, and you know where to find us!! OXO Tijuana
Amberlee - CONGRATS !! that's so awesome!!! Now RELAX!! LOL
AFM - I am feeling so much better thanks to the Zofran...that's my friend!! A little nausea...that's all nothing else...I can deal with that!!!
Well, I will check in later, got a busy weekend ahead!
love you gals!!
Tijuana
Amberlee - CONGRATS !! that's so awesome!!! Now RELAX!! LOL
AFM - I am feeling so much better thanks to the Zofran...that's my friend!! A little nausea...that's all nothing else...I can deal with that!!!
Well, I will check in later, got a busy weekend ahead!
love you gals!!
Tijuana
well it is official, i am pregnant, but the nurse said she didnt know how to read the results by number so she was going to talk to my OB then call me back with the official numbers!! let them be over 1500 so i can have an u/s Monday!!
OMG
OMG
I'm getting all antsy waiting for the results....must go do something else other than sit on the laptop fidgeting....*sprinkles the most potent RSSBD I could find all over this thread*
Krista, i am so sorry you are going through this pain!! it is definitely something you two need to discuss but like Kele said, if the need to be a mommy is more important, DE is the best. it may not be your eggy, but your blood will flow through that babies veins, the air you breathe will make that baby grow, your belly will get the marks on it and you will have all the memories of the first kicks and tumbles and will hear that first cry and that will be your baby, no matter where the egg comes from!! i know you will make the best decision for you but remember, no matter what, nothing is right or wrong and we are here for you every step of the way!! ((HUGS))
AFM well im back from the blood draw, i wasnt suppose to get hte results till tomorrow because they fly them to AZ (God only knows why) but the nurse (who remembered me) said she put the rush on it and it will be sent to one of the local hospitals and i should receive a call around noon.....
*sigh* i was so nervous heading over there, butterflies....im so excited, cant wait to find out where i am....WOW i cannot believe i am saying these things!! wow im so dizzy right now, gonna go lay down....thats new
AFM well im back from the blood draw, i wasnt suppose to get hte results till tomorrow because they fly them to AZ (God only knows why) but the nurse (who remembered me) said she put the rush on it and it will be sent to one of the local hospitals and i should receive a call around noon.....
*sigh* i was so nervous heading over there, butterflies....im so excited, cant wait to find out where i am....WOW i cannot believe i am saying these things!! wow im so dizzy right now, gonna go lay down....thats new
Krista, I personally would take the DE route...we were very close to that as well and I wanted to be a mommy more than I wanted to use my own eggs. But it is up to the two of you.
I posted new belly pics today...and you will be pleased to see the monkey jammies, my poor blue tank top will never fit the same again I fear. lol
I posted new belly pics today...and you will be pleased to see the monkey jammies, my poor blue tank top will never fit the same again I fear. lol
Krista
I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. You know my husband says the same thing to me. Of coarse I have 2 kids so it's not quite the same. But I think you need to explain to your husband as much as you love him, you cannot just turn off the desire to have a child. If you could do that I'm sure you would have done it by now, just to end the pain you feel. I told my husband that I feel like my child is already out there, lost and looking for me. And I have to get to him or he will be gone forever!!!! That seamed to help him understand what I am feeling. Although he still says he would be fine, but now he understands I won't.
I think if you only have enough for one more shot the ED might just be the way to go.
Good Luck hun.
Love,
Jenea'
I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. You know my husband says the same thing to me. Of coarse I have 2 kids so it's not quite the same. But I think you need to explain to your husband as much as you love him, you cannot just turn off the desire to have a child. If you could do that I'm sure you would have done it by now, just to end the pain you feel. I told my husband that I feel like my child is already out there, lost and looking for me. And I have to get to him or he will be gone forever!!!! That seamed to help him understand what I am feeling. Although he still says he would be fine, but now he understands I won't.
I think if you only have enough for one more shot the ED might just be the way to go.
Good Luck hun.
Love,
Jenea'
DANG!!! I stay away for a few days and look what happens! Helen is a momma and Amberlee is preggo! CONGRATS!!!! I am so very happy for both of you.!
AFM, I finally met with the RE on Monday. He told us that we can do another cycle if we want, but the chance of a positive outcome is very slim (he guessed around 15%). I wasn't suprised, but still disappointed. He encouraged the egg donor route, which would give us about a 68% chance of success. Hmmm....15% or 68%. As soon as I think I am ok with the donor thing, I change my mind and think that I could be one of the 15 in 100. But, the reality is we have enough cash/insurance for one more try. Which makes me think I should do the DE. The last thing my DH said to me last night was "you know, not having any children would be a great life, too". It made me want to cry.
Ok, sorry to vent...just got lots on my little pea brain right now.
How do I tell me husband that as much as I love him, the thought of a child-free life is not ok? He takes it personally like he isn't enough for me.
xoxoxo, Krista
AFM, I finally met with the RE on Monday. He told us that we can do another cycle if we want, but the chance of a positive outcome is very slim (he guessed around 15%). I wasn't suprised, but still disappointed. He encouraged the egg donor route, which would give us about a 68% chance of success. Hmmm....15% or 68%. As soon as I think I am ok with the donor thing, I change my mind and think that I could be one of the 15 in 100. But, the reality is we have enough cash/insurance for one more try. Which makes me think I should do the DE. The last thing my DH said to me last night was "you know, not having any children would be a great life, too". It made me want to cry.
Ok, sorry to vent...just got lots on my little pea brain right now.
How do I tell me husband that as much as I love him, the thought of a child-free life is not ok? He takes it personally like he isn't enough for me.
xoxoxo, Krista
Amberlee,
Here is some super glue girley.....LOL
I'm sure Jason is just in shock like you were....ha ha Once it sinks in he will be bouncing off the walls!!!!!
Here is some super glue girley.....LOL
I'm sure Jason is just in shock like you were....ha ha Once it sinks in he will be bouncing off the walls!!!!!
beta tomorrow morning, 830, may or may not get results same day, stupid nurse....hopefully yes, should if i see my dr. she will probably rush it just to make sure if i need to be on prog. or estr.
thank you, i am so freaked out, i cannot believe it!!!! getting pregnant wasnt even on our to do list....he was here this morning with the first one but because it was the dollar tree test, he didnt believe it, then with the second one he was like oh ok....then i called and wasnt going to say anything but he isnt having a good day at work so i said, I AM PREGNANT, he was like yea i know, and i said 'no really, i took a digital from wal-mart and it said YES' and he just sat there so i said 'ok have a good day i love you' and we hung up. i think once he actually sees it, he will be more excited!!! all he said was GOOD
i need a nap.....
i need a nap.....
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