20 dpo BFN, lost hope..PLEASE HELP

[alohacandice]

I am going crazy, can't stop crying, I am so sad. Why is my period not here, could I have a cl cyst or what, I have so many symptoms but keep coming BFN, I am never constipated(tmi) but have been since o, I have nausea, back pains, headaches, lots and lots of cm, twinges in my uterus all the time and I am so disgusted by some foods and smells I don't want to eat, I've lost 5 pounds, which is so odd, cause I just went to the dr past mon to ask why I have not been able to lose the last 10 pounds and I gave up dieting, I had been trying to lose that weight for 6 months, 20 BFN later and still no sign of af, could someone help please, here's my chart:

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/ttc/index.php?interface=0

I have an appt in the morning but who knows when I will get the results back...I would rather see Af to start a new cycle than not know whats going on, I hate this, I have lost hope I am preggo since I keep getting BFN

[alohacandice]

Thanks so much, I guess the worst part is not knowing, and yes, this is a typical chart for me, and usually my luteal phase is 14 days, give or take 1 day, but I am 21 dpo now....oh well off to the dr in a few hours....thanks again

[Heather5]

Wow! That sure looks pretty promising! Although your after O temps are not much higher than your pre O temps. Have you been charting for a while? Are your temps this month normal for you? It does look like a pretty clear rise, though...

Hmmm! I'm just as confused as you. Especially with all the symptoms you're having, yet all BFNs. best of luck tomorrow, and let us know what the doctor says.

[alohacandice]

Sorry...here's my chart....

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/280a9a

[Heather5]

Man...I'm so sorry you're having such a strange cycle. Are you sure you ovulated 20 days ago? I tried to open your chart, but it just took me to my own fertilityfriend chart. Maybe try this instead...

While you're on the fertilityfriend page with your chart, go to the left hand menu and choose "charing" then "home page setup". Then choose the chart you want to share (on the bottom) and click on "save setting". You can then copy the link in the window on top and paste it here for us to view...