I should also add that i have been feeling some weird pressure in my lower abdomen along with slight cramping on my left side. Not sure how fast you can feel pregnancy symptoms after conception. I cant remember with my first 2.
There are a few lucky ladies that get their bfp at 10dpo and other have to wait till they have missed their period. I would say to be save and not get disappointed with a bfn, try to wait till about 12dpo and so on...good luck
Are you doing anything to track ovulation? Such as OPKs or temping? It's way better to know when you ovulate and have a ton of sex then instead of just doing it a lot over the span of 10 days. It's also best to have sex the day before ovulation, so that the sperm is waiting for the egg. Good luck!!