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Pregnancy after tubal..is it possible naturally?/???

I had a tubal (I do not know which kind,stupidly!) about 9 years, 1 month and 2 days ago after the birth of my third daughter (C~section, all 3). I was on the pill for the 2nd and 3rd one but I still got pregnant.  My husband and I at the time were not together and together, he left whenever he felt like it, all in all we were not together for more than 1 year at a time for alomost 13 years.  Finally we divorced! and I thank my lucky stars that I have met a man that I have been with unconditionally for almost 4 years.  I was 24 when I got my tubes tied and I am 33 now.  I want to know what my chances are of getting pregnant?   We CANNOT afford a reversal operation or IVF.  I would love to have a baby with him (he does want one also as he has one that his ex who just wants money and doesn't want him to see the boy (how sad)).  The sad thing is that it is my own fault, I KNEW I didn't want my tubal in case but my ex refused the vasectomy and I couldn't take another chance of being on my own with 4 kids instead of 3.  I couldn't afford 3 let alone 3 or more!  LIKE I SADI I WAS ON THE PILL!  They kept putting me on an stronger and stronger pill and I DID take that religiously! I would do anyhting for that chance to go back in time, especially since I knew it wasn't right but I made the choice and I have to live with it.  But now my question is~~ could there be a chance in hell??  Or am I just dreaming???
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208686 tn?1293030503
I'm not sure where you are located, but I'm in Ohio.. I couldn't find a hospital or doctor cheap enough here, but after some extensive research on the internet we did find a doctor in Kentucky that did my tubal reversal relatively cheap. It cost us right around $7000.00 and it all had to be paid up front but you can actually make payments until it is paid and then they would do the surgery. Or you could put it on a credit card. This doctor is absolutely great and will guarantee his work for you to have as many babies as you would like from there on out, if that includes ivf or whatever as many times as you would like if you can't get pregnant on your own after the surgery. And he doesn't charge a dime for the extra help if needed once the reversal is done. --- listen to me trying to sell this doctor! All I'm saying is that he is very good at what he does and I think it's worth every penny you have to save up to have the surgery done!

I should add, my ex husband and I have 2 children a 17 yr old daughter and a 10 yr old son. They are both excited to be welcoming a new brother in May!

Good Luck, But like Hannah said, without ivf or reversal (and reversal is cheaper in most cases) it's highly unlikely that you will get pregnant, not that you won't, but really really unlikely!
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189192 tn?1261341628
Anything is possible but without ivf or reversal it is highly unlikely.  I say your best chances are to start saving up and make it happen.  
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