Trying to conceive

[smallbex]

Hi I don't no if anyone can help me. Me and my partner have bin trying for a baby since jan2014 now I'm convicted there is something wrong with me. My last period was 38 days ago my periods are irregular so I can never calculate when I ovulate I have got some ovulating test and have taken a few of them but all come up negative I could do it every day but the tests are expensive to keep buying. I've had a period like pain all day but not come on as of yet.. I've bin having sharp pains in my right side of my belly just above my hip for past week it comes and goes I've had a bit of back pain as we'll so I don't no if there is something wrong I took a clear blue pregnancy test tonight and it came up not pregnant.. So I no I'm not pregnant I do have a 2 1/2 year old son to a previous relationship and fell pregnant in 4 month and now its 6 month I thought it was always easier to get pregnant 2nd time round. I would go yo the doctors but mine are really bad and no they will just tell me to come back after a year of trying.. I've asked my partner to have a sperm test but doesn't think they will see him till a year the same. He also has 3 brothers what all have 3 kids each so something doesn't run in the family and he thinks he is ok. I was looking at getting the clear blue fertility testing kit but don't no if it is any good and is expensive I also was think of getting a home sperm test but have mixed reviews on them. My partner is 30 I am 25 we don't smoke take drugs we drink now and again and have a pretty normal diet I think. Can any1 help me. Oh and we have a good a regular sex life I also have read loads of things to help conceived tried it all I also take fertility tablets
Thanks Becky

[smallbex]

Yes I have got some but when av took them I never seam to be ovulating so god nose got my period today only 2 weeks late think I need to try and see the doctor about it.

[tkelly621]

Have u looked at ebay for ovulation tests?  I got a bunch of them pretty cheap.  Good luck

[smallbex]

Hi thank you for all your comments I will try an get into my doctors after the weekend and see what is going on my pain has gone at the side now. So don't no what it was but it's gone had a bit of belly pain really bad yesterday could hardly walk but ok today and I still haven't had my period so dunno if there something wrong with my ovary etc ...

[teak855]

Sounds like you might also have something going on with your appendix. Right side above your hip pain is a sign to get that checked.

[jberry1210]

Thanks. Maybe try switching doctors and find one who will listen to you.  Good luck and best wishes.  Keep me updated :)

[smallbex]

Copper coil the merina 1 .

[aamir1]

Which coil?

[smallbex]

Yea will do that thank you I would never have fort of anything like that. I just hope my doctors will do the test as they are a pain. They never listen to me took 5 month to them to give my son a inhaler and now he is fine now he has got it. But yea will go.and tell them to do some test I had the coil in as well so I don't no if that could affect anything. Hope everything goes right for you and it all works out ok best of look.
Thank you..
Becky

[jberry1210]

Why don't you go and get checked out to make sure everything is alright. It's always good just to make sure. Ask to have a hsg done to make sure your tubes are opened. Also get a ultrasound to check out your pelvic and make sure your ovaries are good. I been trying for 2 years so I know how you feel. I had a bunch of test done as well. My husband and I are both good. Maybe ask your doc about clomid. I am taking it. It suppose to help you ovulate but my gyno gave me it to give my eggs that extra boost. I have taken 2 rounds already my first round didn't work. I got my dose higered to 100mg so I am praying this round works. But definitely try to get in for some test. Good luck.