Why choose abortion, when infertile woman desire them so much.

Why is it that the women who don't want babies it's so easy for them to conceive, and for those of us who desire to be pregnant struggle. It saddens me that women have abortions when I would do almost anything to have a child. I just wanna say consider adoption, just because u don't want the child doesn't mean someone else can't grow to love it.....

[Niki159]

Ya true I think its no fair

[zarazara]

its unfair.there many things in live that we cant really understand the meaning,and that is one of them

[Hb67]

I agree. Life is so precious and those of us who can't have children or find it hard to fall pregnant would find it a blessing to be given the opportunity to be a mum and dad!

[Niki159]

Yes its just selfish and sad

[babyhope40527]

Natali - Totally with you. I read that there are about 600 women who kill their kids every year, and i know women who get pregnant and don't want their baby after delivery and throw them in trash or in woods, and 1 in every 6 women suffer infertility. There are no answers for few questions. It is what it is, each life is so different and we just need to fight for ourselves, and can't help the things out of our control.

[auntlaura]

I have a friend who is like this.  It's bad, but sometimes when I am really down about not being pregnant I resent her because it was so easy for her to conceive and she just threw it away like garbage.  Don't get me wrong I love her like a sister, but I don't agree with what she did when there are so many deserving parents out there

[RippedonScotch]

I agree.  But I think it doesn't help that we put alot of stress on ourselves to get pregnant and it doesn't help anything.   it took me 2 years to conceive  and my girlfriend last wek comes up to me and says I sneezed.   within a week of saying they were thinking about trying for a 3rd baby she is pregnant again.    its super frusterating.

[auntlaura]

I completely agree, I know there have been times when I have been stressed to the max about it and I know it doesn't help, but I can't seem to shake it

[rmmoye]

Ladies i know it is heart breaking. Just try to remember that some of the Greatest women in the Bible struggled for years to have a child. When they finally did have a child that child turned out to be a wonderful child and God blessed them greatly.

[rmmoye]

We have been ttc for 4 1/2 years, several mc and i still am trusting God for His perfect time.