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can i take some pills to get pregnant i'm desperate?

hi friends
i know basically here this forum i'm using just as a vent to my feelings. to give a quick brief about me i'm trying to concieve now for almost 8 months but no luck. doc said take a vacation and me and my husband did. i  came bk day before and yesterday was my ovulation day . but because of heat and indigestion i got stomache upset. i was in pain last night and looking at my condition my husband refused to do and said we'll see next month. whole night i lied next to him crying cursing him for not doing it. **** sleep a wink. talking to my self telling myself that he's a father's heart but wat to do with my heart whom i **** convince whole night who kept saying will have to wait for another one month to grab this precious day.i think i'm on the verg of breakdown . and to add to my meseries my best friend cald me to tell me that she's pregnant in the first go. feels like the end of the world for me feel very lonely and depressed. will give anything to be there.
can i take some pills to get pregnant?????????????
thanx for listening ladies pray for me........
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178239 tn?1277405491
A dr won't prescribe pills until 1 yr of trying. Also, will need testing to see if there is a fertility problem. On the other hand, if dh isn't bding, no medication in the world will help.
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''dh isn't bding'' whats that?
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dragonflysar21 recommended this web site if u have infertility problems such as PCOS its great i will try to order this. insulitelabs.com
There is a lot of great research for women in here. hope this could help.
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178590 tn?1294176767
DH isn't bding means your Dear Husband isn't Baby dancing (sex)
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I was on twoweekwait.com last nigh and saw a lot of woment that swear by preseed, I don't know what this is but one lady said she had only been trying for three months, got preseed and go pg right away. I don't know anything about it but I know there are ladies on here who do. Also be patient with DH, this is probably harder on him than he lets on. Also he probably thought that it was really in your best interest. Don't hide your feeling from him.
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I know what you must be going through right now but the pain you were feeling could also have been ovulation pain, although you are not on anything like clomid, some women experience major ovulation pain, I did on clomid and that was no joke, I was in such pain, the last think I wanted to do with have anything to do with my DH but you HAVE to :-( end of story !!!

You have to remember this since next month you might feel the same way, just explain this to him.  Also I tell my DH that I will tell him if he hurts me, he just needs to be gentle but still do his thing ...

As for medication, you can go to www.ovulex.com some of my friends too this when TTC and it worked for them.  After no luck with clomid I am on Ovulex for the next 3 months at least, I put my hubby on Amberoz too, you will see all that info on the site, my obgyn said because it is not FDA approved she cannot tell me it will help but she researched it for me and said it definitely couldn't hurt and told me to go ahead.  This might be worth a try for you and it is way less expensive than fertility of any kind :-)

Hope that helps and good luck.
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hi i am trying to get pregnant too i got pregnant last year and misscarried at 5 months and have tryed getting pregnant again and i'm not so i am goign to try fertil aid it is a herbal pill there are alot of success stories so i am hoping it works you should check it out http://****.***
i hope this helps
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well me to i've been trying to get pregnant. my friend got pregnant taking fertility pills which im taking now but i still dont know if they work. does any body has any suggestions im recently married but my husband has a baby boy with his ex. and we want a girl well what god gives us
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Hey guys,
I were on the pill and i stopped and had unprotected sex from the day i stoppoed hoping to get pregnant but i didn`t.
It`s been a year and 6 months now i have been trying but nothing it seems to happen, he ejuclate iniside me and i have never used a condom..
I am not stressed at all, as my doctor said it could be stress, i have a really relax life as i am off work to now, me and my fiancee have a really strong relationship and in love with eachother so much. We both young, and daying to give a baby a life.
Shall i get warried??
It is really hurting me now.
Please someon help me!
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I also rembered, that i older sister couldn`t get pregnant and she did after a while with a help of tablets prescribed by a specialist doctor..
My mum had four girls and she lost 3 of her children before they were born.
So thats the reason why i am getting more warried...
Someone help me please...
Thanks!
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I know what you mean. i am online right now looking for pills to help me. I have been trying since july 2008 and nothing. to make it worse, everyone that people least expect to be pregnant are popping before, during, and after my birthday :( which ***** so bad. I want a baby NOW NOW NOW NOW so badly because one: i thought i was pregnant july 2008 for about a few months because i didnt get my period for 7 months, which i recently got 2 months ago, after that i got a second reason, i got obsessed because my grandparents told me they were retiring and moving to philippines and I was determined to make sure I got pregnant and let them know if proven positive because I wanted them to stay and get to know and meet my child and third, I jsut wanted to make sure I was still capable of conceiving, its making me tear talking about it because oddly, i was just watching that stupid movie "baby mama" urghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
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I know wat u mean, i have been trying to get pregnant for nine months now with nothing happening, how ever i was put on clomid 100mg for three months, this is my last month and i am going out of my mind, i really want to have a baby and every where i turn that is all i see, my friends and everyone else that i know seem to be getting pregnant except me and it is really frustrating. my dh is telling me that i need to take it easy aqnd just let everything happen on its own................lord knows how i love children and right now i am afraid to even go close to them cause i start  to cry , its eating my inside that i may never be able to have a child of my own.
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I have tried to get pregnant for two years i got pregnant last year and had a stillbirth and the 8th month and i am trying to get back pregnant its been 8 months and i am trying and havent recieve any results any suggestions anyone?
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A related discussion, how to get pregnant quickly was started.
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1185247 tn?1264289466
I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO GET PREGNANT FOR 7 YEARS. I'VE TRIED OVULEX AND PROVERA AND NOW IM TRYING FOLIC ACID. ARE THERE ANY OTHER SUGG. THAT ANYONE COULD GIVE ME. I JUST GOT MARRIED ON THE 27TH OF OCT. AND I WANT TO HAVE A BABY I KNOW ITS ALL IN GOD'S PLAN BUT IM STARTING TO THINK I CANT HAVE KIDS. PLEASE HELP
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1048927 tn?1271834011
Hi,
    First I am sorry that your ttc journey has been so long. have you seen a specialist? They say you should see one after 2 years of trying ( under 35 ) and 6 months if you are over.
    I have been trying to have my second child for over a year and have had numerous tests by my doctor and I am now seeing a specialist.

Good luck
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If you are having problems getting a child you need to find an obstetrician. The obstetrician will set you on the right track. If there is infertility he will send you to a reproductive endicronologist (RE) a fertility specialist.
Don't stress out. you will always have the next month to try. I find that men cannot really have the feelings we women have about a baby. We feel our biologicial clock ticking and it freaks us out. I had to do everything in my IVF cycle. DH was a spectator. Which is good because if he head learned all the tough decisions about IVF he may have freaked out and would not have been able to perform.
You both need to eat well and try to relax. You do not want your baby to come from a night you were fighting for each other. ;)
Good luck!
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i want to have a baby but my boyfriend said the time is not right i have one but want a other so bad that i time i cry i want so bad i am trying to see is there a chang that i can get pregent without a man please help me
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i hve been trynna get pregnant with anothr child for about 11 years now. i have been to doctors, had surgery on olvaries, had dye inserted to see if tubes were blocked they were not. i got to the point that i gave up hope on tryin. i had a surprisin miscarriege in january of last year. an that really tore me up because of how long i tried and how bad i been wantin another child. so ive still been tryin and chartin ovulation,period all that. went back to doctor the only advice he had was IVF. i can not afford to pay for that..WHAT ELSE IS THERE TO DO..or wat can i take????
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1097532 tn?1326675347
Hi!  please dnt feel like its the end of the world you'll get your bfp it might take a little more time ,but i know how u feel i've been ttc for 14 mnths and i really want to give up but i know its all worth it in the end .  talk with ur RE but clomid and HCG shots what meds if any are on.  Good luck loads of baby dust!
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im i want to get pregnant to and i heard by one of my moms friends that she got 12 shots and they heald her and she got pregnant whit in the same month the shots are called cuerpo amarillo and the come in pacls of 6 so u would have to buy 2 boxes u get them in mexico only dough its just like the doctors give u hormones but these are shots and work much faster i already did that and i went to the could heal me as well i hope i could get pregnant to .
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hi i am rading wat u are all writing and it helps but in another way it doesnt me and my partner want a baby so bad he is starting to think i just tell him i want a baby and am hiding birth control pills or something so i dnt get preg. but im not i just cant a while back i had chlymidia and got ittreated and i told him to get treated to so we both did at the same time and we have been trying almost a year and like most of u r sayin everyone around u is gettin preg even ppl that dnt deserve baby's and i havnt im starting to get worried that something more went on when i had this std that i may not be able to get pregnant and am scared to go to the doctors to find out.does anytone know wat i can do or hav heard of anyone else in the same situation and wat did they do about it and is there a way that if something is wrong i can get it treated and still be able to have kids :)
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i have been tryin to have a baby for about 8 months an me and my fiance are haveing bad luck does anyone know any kind of pills that can amke you get prego lol plz help!
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Please help me i've been to doctors and tried just about anything and everything and still nothing i admit the fact that i am overweight and its hard for me to lose the weight any suggestions on natural weight loss products or how to get preg? i've seen bigger ppl get preg, but everyone is different i understand that please help me i cry alot because of it. i had been stressing before but am better now thanks to JC, been trying for almost ten years, recently started takin tribulus and other medications well that is natural meds. PLEASE HELP ME :(......
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