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im 17 and me and my boyfriend have had sex with out a condom for about 9 months and even though he takes it out before he comes. i know that it is still likely u can get pregnant even though im not ready to start a family it started to worry me that i have not become pregnant yet do you think there could be something wrong with me or i can not have children
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215752 tn?1278004771
Why do you put yourself on this position? You are only 17 and having headeaches why you haven't got pregnant yet? You should think of school and college and be someone in your life cause later is gonna be to late. Don't do this games, and tell your boyfriend to. You don't have the age to have kids. And if you get pregnant i don't think your b/f wants that responsibility.If you have any problems getting pregnant you should cross that bridge when the time comes.Enjoy your life and be someone for yourself.
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First of all I think you are playing with fire!!!!  If you are not ready for a family.....which I doubt you are since you must still be in high school since you are 17!!!  Then you should NOT BE HAVING SEX!!!  

You will probably not hear much from anyone on this chat site because it is married women that can not have children with their HUSBANDS after many YEARS of trying!  So, count your blessings that you have not become pregnant yet!  And YES you can get pregnant still there is nothing to worry about. If you have normal menstral cycles and you are VERY young I would not worry about NOT being able to get pregnant so much as I would about GETTING PREGNANT!!!  

Your boyfriend might not have sperm in his pre-come, and you might ovulate at a different weird time in your cycle. Not every woman is perfect.  The rule of thumb is that you are supposed to have a 28 day cycle and ovulate sometime around the 14th day after the 1st day you start your period.....but like I said, some women ovulate the day after their period ends....some women have ovulated without even having a period, some on the 30th day after if it is a long cycle...you just never know.

So don't worry about never having children and worry about graduating and getting married later in life then focus on getting pg....I know it will happen for you. Best of luck...be SMART and don't destroy your future by trying to pg this early in life, there are too many parties and fun things for you to experience before worring about how to support yourself and a child.  Plus you never know maybe it's your boyfriends problem and not you.
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CAN SOMEONE PLZ COMMENT IM RELY WORRIED
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