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Please confirm that there's no way I would feel anything

There are a lot of new-ish people out here who may not know me. I've been on this forum since 2006. In March of 2007 I got pg naturally at age 39 in just 5 months. We lost our baby boy, Aidan, in my 20th week :0( We have never been able to get pg again. I'm 42 now and have diminished ovarian reserve. I've accepted it and we are planning to adopt in the next year or so.

So here's the deal, my boobs and nips really hurt. I looked at my calendar and turns out DH and I had sex during O time. I would only be 6 dpo today, so, like my title says, tell me there's no way I would feel anything this early. I don't think I can get pg, but sometimes when you stop thinking about it, that's when it happens, even when you're 42, and have been given little to no chance of conceiving.

I want to stop thinking about it so I can focus on work and home and friends and family and not obsess. If you think there's no way I could feel anything this early, then please tell me. If you've personally felt something this early when you were pg, then please tell me that, too.

Oh, and by the way: SSBD for EVERYONE!!!

~Sue
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It's good to see you on again!  I have everything crossed for you hun!!  I have never had a BFP so I can't tell you if it's too early.  
I hoping for your BFP!  good luck sue
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If God can create the Sun, Moon and Stars, and can create US! That is "LIFE" You can have a baby, if its Gods will you have a child through adoption or naturally child birth .. you will..

God bless you Sue.. Im saying a special prayer for you tonight..

Gloroius Saint Anne, filled with compassion for those who invoke thee and with love for those who suffer, heavily laden with the weight of my troubles, I cast myself at thy feet and humbly beg of thee to obtain for me from Jesus, thy Grandson, through the intercession of the blessed Virgin Mary, thy Daughter and my Mother, the favor i seek. (Here make a request) "That Sue has her hearts desire" Above all, assist me at the hour of my death.  Amen..
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Glad you are BACK!!!!! Im doing egg donor very soon... we are still doing paperwork and stuff... it takes time but I feel very positive about it:) How are you?
You know... maybe because you decide to do adoption and don't have the stress anymore, you will get pregnant on your own... you wouldn't be the first one.... that happens a LOT!!:)

I wish you LUCK!!!

Mariana
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Hi Sue - I've read your story and am in tears. I so hope you get your Rainbow soon.
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Weird things do happen. I spent 6 years trying to conceive and had a son through IVF. I got pregnant naturally when he turned a year and am now 19 weeks.good luck.
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I agree strangers things have happened, I had an aunt who was not successful in conceiving then decided to adopt and came up pregnant. Baby Dust and Love.
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Never say never : )   Alot of us on are fertility meds and our boobs hurt from the progesterone we're on, so I don't know how much help we can be, but I wouldn't 100% count it out... Stranger things have happened!
Good luck to you in your dream of having a family.... However that happens :  )  Please let us know how things turn out!

Baby Dust to you to!
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