no problem any time you want to talk
Thank you so much for all of your advice. It makes me feel much better to have another woman explain these things. I will be sure to not worry about it so much, as that's not doing me any good. I hate the fact that I am so paranoid about things, but I suppose it's better to be safe than sorry.
Again; thank you. It means a lot to me.
yeah you could have scraped yourself a little to hard i know some women use feeling their cervix however i never have but i think your right about the softer and slightly opened meaning your ovulating most women ovulate around the middle of their cycles thats about two weeks before your period which is why most women can't get pregnant on or around the start or end of their periods you only ovulate once a cycle and you can't get pregnant if you have already finished ovulating till next month so unless your cycle is very irregular then you don't then you don't need to worry you would have a very low chance from where you are in your cycle plus your on birth control so i think you'll be fine your cervix might be a little sore so take it easy for a couple days
Sorry, I forgot to add that when I asked if I could be too rough, that I do have nails and as they are weaker than a lot of women's nails due to biting them as a child, they are thinner also and this results in them being rather sharp.
I see, Thank you for your reply. So once I have finished ovulating it is very unlikely that I could be pregnant?
Also, I would like to add, that I went to the bathroom. I have read online that you can feel your cervix (I believe that's what I'm referring to.. I read it a few hours ago, sorry, I have a horrible memory sometimes) by sticking a finger inside of you and gently feeling whether it is "hard and closed" or "softer and slightly open" if it is "softer and slightly open" that is when you are ovulating. Of course; I do know what to feel for as this is usually what I feel for when I am expecting my period as it tends to be "softer" right before it happens. However; when I had felt it, the tiniest amount of pink was within my discharge. It was barely visible, but it was there. Could this be a sign that I am stressing over this far too much? Or could I have possibly been a little too rough whilst feeling around?
I do apologize if what I am saying is 'creeping' anyone out or not making much sense. I am awfully horrible at explaining things. I am soon to be 21 and still don't know all too much about this, as I have lived a rather sheltered life as a child. Once again, thank you for your reply, I do hope to hear from you again soon.
i agree its very unlikely you would get pregnant even if you did get sperm inside you because 1 your on birth control 2 you almost at the end of your cycle so you've probably already ovulated