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Failed IVF - heartbreaking and very tearful.
My first IVF didn't work. I actually didn't think that this can be so painful and emontionally wreckless. I just hope that my second time will be more successful. I don't even know what is wrong with me, no freaking explanation from the doctors either.
I actually had a blood test yesterday, which was 14 days after ovulation and was negative. I just want to know why am I still having the symptoms. My period is late (but then again it is the progesterone) and I am feeling very shaky and the abdominal pain and pelvic pain is just overbearring. I am also very light headed right now. What is happening, is this a normal reaction after failed IVF, does anyone knows what is going on with me.
I actually had a blood test yesterday, which was 14 days after ovulation and was negative. I just want to know why am I still having the symptoms. My period is late (but then again it is the progesterone) and I am feeling very shaky and the abdominal pain and pelvic pain is just overbearring. I am also very light headed right now. What is happening, is this a normal reaction after failed IVF, does anyone knows what is going on with me.
Hi,
I just went throught a second round of IVF and was not successful. We tried in the Fall of 2010 with one follicle and we just tried again in January/February 2012. We had three (3) follicles that looked really good. But found out last weekend that the preg test was negative.
I am 42 and my husband is 45, we are not sure if we should try one more time. Found out recently that I work with a nurse that has done IVF and was successful and has two (2) children. She might be able to assist with all of the injections.
I did have some severe stress this past month (my Mum almost passed away, but seems to be okay now) and found out that I have a peanut allegery so the progesterone capsules that I was using might have caused the problem.
We should have tried this sooner but I thought we had lots of time to have a family. But when my husband was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2008 that is when we realized we were running out of time. IVF is the only solution.
Going through lots and lots of emotions right now.
I just went throught a second round of IVF and was not successful. We tried in the Fall of 2010 with one follicle and we just tried again in January/February 2012. We had three (3) follicles that looked really good. But found out last weekend that the preg test was negative.
I am 42 and my husband is 45, we are not sure if we should try one more time. Found out recently that I work with a nurse that has done IVF and was successful and has two (2) children. She might be able to assist with all of the injections.
I did have some severe stress this past month (my Mum almost passed away, but seems to be okay now) and found out that I have a peanut allegery so the progesterone capsules that I was using might have caused the problem.
We should have tried this sooner but I thought we had lots of time to have a family. But when my husband was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2008 that is when we realized we were running out of time. IVF is the only solution.
Going through lots and lots of emotions right now.
Hello,
We heard today our first IVF cycle failed. We are heartbroken. I'm 38 with low AMH so the odds were low anyways. We got 8 eggs all fertilised, 4 reached blasto - 2 put back in, 2 frozen. The day of my test I got my period. We were so positive through it all but nothing prepared me for the utter devastation of the BFN. It's too early to even think about what next but I just wanted to thank everyone for posting to this forum - I am not the only one going through this horrible horrible experience.
We heard today our first IVF cycle failed. We are heartbroken. I'm 38 with low AMH so the odds were low anyways. We got 8 eggs all fertilised, 4 reached blasto - 2 put back in, 2 frozen. The day of my test I got my period. We were so positive through it all but nothing prepared me for the utter devastation of the BFN. It's too early to even think about what next but I just wanted to thank everyone for posting to this forum - I am not the only one going through this horrible horrible experience.
Hi all,
For our IVF, we have to pay all things by our cash and credit card 25k. After increase double medication (10k) since my wife's body did not create many eggs. Finally, we saw 4 big ones through altr sound. Today is the day to take the eggs out. I being told by doctor that my wife only has 1 egg. Others are no good. My wife even cried at doctor office. Lately, there is another staff called me saying the last egg looks not quite good. He'll gives the sperm to it. There is a chance of 50/50. We've shocked. We ran out of money since we don't make good income. I don't really know how to keep going with this since we ran out of everything and my wife age is 39ys on new year. Don't give up is the best method... but we totally ran out of money to try the next. I don't asking for money, but are there anyway we can ease the situation? Thanks for sharing!
For our IVF, we have to pay all things by our cash and credit card 25k. After increase double medication (10k) since my wife's body did not create many eggs. Finally, we saw 4 big ones through altr sound. Today is the day to take the eggs out. I being told by doctor that my wife only has 1 egg. Others are no good. My wife even cried at doctor office. Lately, there is another staff called me saying the last egg looks not quite good. He'll gives the sperm to it. There is a chance of 50/50. We've shocked. We ran out of money since we don't make good income. I don't really know how to keep going with this since we ran out of everything and my wife age is 39ys on new year. Don't give up is the best method... but we totally ran out of money to try the next. I don't asking for money, but are there anyway we can ease the situation? Thanks for sharing!
Its Sunday very foggy in London.
Its also very sad day in my house.First ivf failed, I got my pd early morning today. I have a transfer on 09/11//11 and the same day get very ill- it was a horrible cold with cough and temprature. I could not sleep, eat...
It happen the same day transfer has been done- how unlucky that is.
As i was coughing so badly its seems I have lost my babies...
Still not well enough and no pregnant.
I was pregnant last year but lost the baby in 14 week- baby was not well...
I have a great husband and we hoped it will work (are we not all ?)
I want to start next ivf asap but how quickly can we start?
I will talk to my doctor tomorrow but I agree with everyone here - it hurts so much...
I feel very lost today
Its also very sad day in my house.First ivf failed, I got my pd early morning today. I have a transfer on 09/11//11 and the same day get very ill- it was a horrible cold with cough and temprature. I could not sleep, eat...
It happen the same day transfer has been done- how unlucky that is.
As i was coughing so badly its seems I have lost my babies...
Still not well enough and no pregnant.
I was pregnant last year but lost the baby in 14 week- baby was not well...
I have a great husband and we hoped it will work (are we not all ?)
I want to start next ivf asap but how quickly can we start?
I will talk to my doctor tomorrow but I agree with everyone here - it hurts so much...
I feel very lost today
I just found out that my preg test was Neg. it hurst so bad. I'm just so upset and hurt... We have 1 frozen good embro but we dont have the money to do it.... Just crying until I cant cry no more.....
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