May-June 2011 IVF'ers

[babyhope40527]

Dear ladies

Ahh! after using medication for a month; i could bring down my thyroid and hence i would start my ICSI IVF cycle from May 2011. :). I will be put on Lupron from May. Sperm has already been collected and slow frozen; so it is just with eggs now. Fingers crossed. will keep you all posted. very happy for now and excited.

good luck to you all. anyone starting in may too?

would there be adverse side effects due to lupron?

thanks
babyhope40527

[HopefulBetsy]

Thanks so much for your kind words.    This is by far the most stressfull and emotional thing I've ever been through in my life.    I never thought I would not be a mother .. I am going to try again - We're going to borrow $20,500 from my parents, Which will give me 2 fresh and 2 frozen cycles - if that doesnt work , then I can't imagine what my life will be like - in debt for  years paying for a baby that doesnt exist.  Its so hard not to be negative right now,   I don't see any light , just sadness.   Thank godness this is a long weekend, i need the rest from work after this emotional week ., Good Luck to u PL38

[PLS83]

yes for me also first few day after ET i have tenderness. later i don't have any. I didn't bother about it. good if we have someone around us, days juss fly away. Have fun.
Today our frds went to Iceland RV trip.  they invited us. we couldn't make it. I missed that fun :(. My DH & I have to do something around here.

Have fun ladies...Happy Long weekend...Njoy Fireworks :))

[PLS83]

2 more spots in uterus ,thats truely amazing. waiting to hear ur U/S results :)). keep posting.

[PLS83]

Thats very sad. Im very sorry for ur pain. I read many stories in many forums about women who got success through IVF in their age 40s. give few more trails you definitely get success. pray,pray... Goodluck.

[HopefulBetsy]

Hi Ladies,
Im so devistated today.  I was finally pregnant this month on my second IVF try.  You may have seen my posts 2 weeks back.  I am 41 and had a transfer of 6 what were considered to be almost perfect5 embroyos - 8 and 9 cell with less than 5% fragnmentatio.  I started the HpTS on day 7 and started with the faint line and then the digital that showed pregnant - on  Wed June 22 I gotr my first official BFP with a beta of 154.  This past Tueday June 28, I went in for my second beta test ( 6 days after the first) - after my bloode work on the morning I went to work and I started bleeding - My stomach dropped and my heart was racing,I was prayng oh God no!! Please pleaae let this be nothing, I caled the clinic and they said go home and rest and theyd call me as soon as they had the results of my morning blood work - when I got home  I noticed a clot that I passed,  and then I stopped bleeding.   I was absolutely devistated and my heart raced fror the next 4 hours waiting for the call - when I got the call they told me my #'s went up to only 815 and they had wanted to see them over 1000 at that point,   Ijust new it was over.  She said to come back in 2 days -When I went in yesterday they confirned the  chemical pregmancy - the #'S  dropped to 200( which s what they call it - but there was impantation but not for long ) .. Needlesss to say I am just so devistated..I can';t believe it.,.,How coud;l someone be on toop of the world one minute and then within the matter of an hour its over..   I;m 41 years old- my insurance is done paying for IVF ( I had a lifetime max of 2 IVF cycles)  I have never been so stressed out in my life - I thought for sure this was it for me I was finally after all these years going to have the baby Ive been praying for every day , everytinme I blow out candles oin my birthday cake, everytime I throw a coin in wishig well, everytime I wish in a star, everytime I light a candle at church.,,  My next step now is $20,500 I have to have IN  advance to get 2 fresh and 2 frozen cycles    ( I guess the program to get 70% back ended with  37 years old)   Where in the world am I going to get twenty thousand dollars??!!   - If I can get someone to finance me it will take me 3-4 years to pay that off - which is fine , but what happens if It still doesn't work?> how could I find another $20K??    I have no time to wait ,  I;m 41 and 1/2 - I don't have the luxury to wait a second on this..,., I am sooooo miserable, why is this happening to me?? ,, Why does my sister in laws, 4 children all be unwed teenage mothers and I have nothing.., I wish I could find someone that I could give the 30k for a baby..,   I just want to buy one somewhere so Iknow the money I spend will result in me being a mother.,.Im sorry to rant like this, I am so stressed out , so so unhappy and just so sad.,     Is anyone out there over 40 and actually had a sucessfull IVF ??>    If I coiuldn't get 6 perfect embryos to work - whats it gonna take????  - Ladies I am also interested in beginning to look int adoption for a baby but I havent the faintest Idea where to start., anyway - thank you to anyone out there for listening to me ,, I wish you all the best,

[MJinWaiting]

Trying and tweet thank you so much for the warm wishes! It means so much to me!! July 11th cant come fast enough lol. Trying Im dying for your results tomorrow!!! ahhhhh Im off tomorrow and usually dont check this but if you tell me for sure youll post then ill def online tomorrow! yuck mornign sickness! ive only had nausea so far kinda intense but no throwing up yet...knock on wood lol

Yayyyy

Hoping2b-Try not to think abotu it, the tenderness can be from the progesterone too. I know its the hardest thing but your soooo close!!

Ladies testing on the 5th its right around the corner just keep your heads up and your prayers up higher!!

Here's to Hoping! Love and babydust to all!