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237300 tn?1231454718

Something weird I calculated

Okay girls so this really doesn't have to do with anything but....You know how I waited like FOREVER for af after my m/c...well I was calculating yesterday and figured out something really weird.  First of all I had my D and C on my brother's b-day...June 19th.  Then I started spotting on my sister's b-day Sept. 9th...so my first af since m/c was Sept. 10th.  

In August I spotted on the 10th.  It was spotting for a couple of days but it never got heavy so I didn't count it as a period.  I was thinking it probably was my af trying to come but b/c I still had HCG in my system it probably just never did.  So if I count the Aug. spotting as af then my cycle would've been 32 days.

With that being said if I got pregnant this month...the first month I've been able to try my due date would be June 19th which was the date of my D and C this year....How weird is that?  It's just very ironic so I had to share.  I really think it's meant to be this month!!!

Good luck and baby dust to everybody!!!
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237300 tn?1231454718
I really feel like this is my month.  Last time we tried for 2 months and get preg. pretty easily.  I just keep telling DH that if I never had the m/c I would' ve never seen the RE and I would've never known that I have heterozygous MTHFR.  That's when being paraniod pays off.  It seems that all OB's think one m/c is okay...well in my book it wasn't okay and I wasn't going to wait for it to happen again.  Now I'm taking medicine to keep my homocysteine levels down..it's been almost 3 months and I'm so ready...time to get back on the horse...

Congrats pcarsey..you must be so excited...I've read some of your posts...glad to hear your numbers went up!
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208686 tn?1293030503
You know, I am exactly like that. I have 2 children and I know exactly when and where I got pregnant with them. And my last pg (M/C) I knew that I got pregnant on my daughters birthday was due on my sisters' birthday and I had a M/C on my dad's birthday. This time around, I got pregnant while on vacation at Niagra Falls, Canada side.. tease my hubby all the time about it being a illegal alien baby..lol.. *brought to the US from Canada*.. and I am due on my oldest brothers birthday. Oh yeah.. I have it bad.. and I really feel like my mom *god rest her soul* has a very big part in this pregnancy.
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237300 tn?1231454718
Oh yeah....I've been calculating since I m/c...my dh keeps saying, "stop doing that".  I can't help myself...you know I feel like I have a timeline that way.  Like it keeps me positive.  So far my calculations have been terribly wrong..haha.  I thought I would be so preg. by now...I had me having af 4 weeks after m/c yeah...I should've tried almost 14 weeks after m/c.  I'm not sure if I should count Aug. spotting as af...but I like the idea that maybe June 19th won't forever stick in my head as such a bad day!

Tanker...glad I'm not the only one...haha
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189192 tn?1261341628
That is so funny that you sat and figured that out... that sounds like something that I would have done.. lol

Best of luck to you..
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178239 tn?1277405491
Last time I got a bfp was the week my 1st pg would have been due. Strange how these things work out. I hope it's all good signs and pos news!
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237300 tn?1231454718
Yeah...this is so weird.  I figured you guys would think it was strange too.  I'm just such a big believer that everything happens for a reason right now.  If I never had the m/c I would have never have found out that I have MTHFR...I don't know it's just such a weird coincidence that I had to share...thanks for reading.  Good luck to you!
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That is so weird, hope it all works out it may be meant to be..  It would be a wonder gift to make up for the m/c ....    Hope all goes well SSBD
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