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1340863 tn?1366641084

November 2010 IVF-ers

Today September 23, I had my Beta result for my second IVF, it was negative.  My first IVF worked but then ended in a miscarriage at 6 weeks.  I was really hoping this time worked but it didnt sooooo ...... here I am waiting for this menstrual cycle to finish and waiting for the next one around the end of October to start my 3rd IVF journey and Im looking for friends and November IVF buddies so we can share questions, knowledge and help eachother with the wait during and after this process.  Cant wait to meet you all.

A healthy pregnancy as a Christmas gift sounds GREAT!!!
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1340863 tn?1366641084
OMG, Im tearing for you, Im so sorry you are having to go thru this, know that you are not the only one and that is nuttin you did wrong, Back in June I miscarried at 6 weeks 2 days, the sack came out on its own and didnt need a D&C.  After that I was so devastated just like you, never thought I was going to feel better to go at it again, 1 month later did it again, I was stronger then the fist time and guess what it turned out to be a BFN, afer 2 months went at it again, yeah again and here I am, went for my transfer today and my faith is stronger then ever.  Cry, cry, cry, you will feel better, know Im here to talk if you need to, and please dont give up.  Remember you have frosties babies and a FET is easier and faster.  I will pray for your heart to heal fast and for GOD to give you the strenght to do the FET as soon as your RE wouod let you. God bless you friend
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757819 tn?1302029000
I am so so sorry to hear about you news how devastating, u will find the strength to move forward  
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How do you go on after such devastating news. We went in for my ultrasound and there was no heartbeat. I am soooo hearbroken, I don't know what to do with my self. I can't believe after getting that BFP in the beginning that I could be torn down so quickly. I was 6weeks 5 days pregnant. WHY!!!! I just cant believe this is happening to us. I was so excited to share the news at christmas but now my husband gets to tell them that we have miscarried so they will stop bugging us on when we are going to have kids. This is the worst christmas present ever, I don't know when I can build of the strength to do a FET.

Has anyone miscarried around this time before, I would really like to know what to expect? Do I need a D&C, my RE didnt say anything about it. I have stopped my P2 and Estrogen, how many days will it take for my period to start? They want me to come in on Monday to see how fast my Beta is dropping, This is true torture and I pray that none of you have to ever go through this, it's absolutely awful.... Sorry to be such a downer today, but I am really struggling to find peace with this.
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1340863 tn?1366641084
Well Ladies here I am waiting for it to be noon so I can get my transfer done and keep them babies inside me for at least 9 months.  

Today is also my birthday and I want to thank you all for the happy birthday wishes.  I do have a request for you and is that please pray for me, pray that the quality of my embrios are good and that my transfer goes perfect.  I know God is listening and specially to us.

TAGLAS - Good luck today!!!! You are in my prayers.

Will update you after the ET ASAP.

BABY DUST TO US ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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1462588 tn?1345061795
Wow so much exciting news!


MommaBee -  Congrats! I'm so happy to hear you're prego!

Wonderwoman35 - We wish you a Merry x-mas, we wish you a Merry x-mas, and a Happy New Year!!!!! Congrats!

optimist699 -  How r u feeling? try not to stress :) Beta day will be here soon!

Sisi - Happy B-day ! I will be holding your hand also. I feel this is our time!

             ***HOPE ALL IS WELL HAPPY HOLIDAYS AND SSBD TO ALL***

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757819 tn?1302029000
So called my RE today I have appt with him on Jan 6,2011. will talk to him about removing my fibroids b4 moving forward with my frosties
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