What should I do now?

[ashort]

Okay girls so AF is here YAY?  Does anybody have any advice on what I should do next???

The plan is bd like a bunny...haha...no I thought I would by a lot more OPK's...I thought i would start using them this weekend...probably Sat.which would be CD6...I know it's early but I have NO idea when I ovulate and this is my first af after m/c.  My cycle used to be 35-38 days (before m/c).  So....I thought I would use OPK every day at the same time and just start bding every other day starting Sat.  Does anybody have any other advice....Preseed?  bding every other day too much?  Should I call my RE and let him know I finally got AF?  What do I do?  Any advice would be appreciated...thanks!!

[ashort]

Oh Kelly you are such an inspiration to me...your first af since m/c I hope that happens to me...

You guys are great....I'm going to bd like a bunny...haha  My dh is excited too...haha..What male wouldn't be...I think I'm going to start this weekend just to be safe.  I spoke to my RE today and he said that b/c my cycle is long I should o on day 17-20.  he said to bd on day 12 and then every other day just to make sure.  I'm going to try the OPK's...BBT I haven't done yet...the charting...hmmm complex....  If I bed like a bunny how can I lose?  

Just found out today that I came up postive for MTHFR...getting meds tomorrow from the RE....

Maybe I have found the cause of my m/c???

Happy bding...thanks for the advice!

[kellym]

Okay, I went out and bought a bunch of OPK's on babyhopes . com
So, I could test & test.  This was my first cycle after my m/c and I got Pregnant!!
I think my most positive OPK test was on Wednesday night and I had only BD the previous Sunday night and Wednesday morning....I think you should every other day but right now might be a little early. I might would save up the spermies until you are starting to get a line on the OPK's....GOOD LUCK!!!

[vsentz]

i'd say yes!!! bd every other day or every third day until you start seeing double lines getting darker....then start the everyday bding!, you can start charting......to make sure you O'ed.....and use preseed too!.....hmm...what else......hmmmmm.......oh! vitex! i recommend that! that helped my hormones get more regular after my mc.........and your vitamins girl!!!!

OH MY GOSH! all the baby dust and luck and best wishes and prayers to you girl! THIS WILL BE YOUR MONTH!!!!!

=)

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

Get to BDing soon as the bleeding stops.....and BD every other day and take lots of OPK's yep that's what I'm doing....oh and I got 2 lines yesterday on the OPK so that means I'm getting closer to O yeah.......I hope I feel better when it comes...well good luck

[paranoidpattie]

I'd say definitely do your BBT charting along with the OPK's.  Remember that sometimes you can get a positive OPK and not O, so that's why BBT charting is so important so that you'll know if you really did O.  

Good luck!

[orphanannie59]

If you take your temps (bbt), use opk, use pre-seed, take Evening Primrose Oil until O time, bd every day 5 days before and at least one day after(and twice a day if you can), you should cover your bases.  Oh and don't forget the robitussin, green tea, and standing on your head after bd (just kidding)LOL.  I am just kidding, but these are the things we do to get pregnant, and I bet I am forgetting some really important stuff.  Seriously bbt and opk's are important, that way you catch O before and know that you have O'd.  I used preseed (third cycle bfp), EPO before O, bbt and opk, with bding before and day of O and got my bfp.  Go get the Answer opk's in the tube (20 strips for 20.00), that way you are not spending alot of money (I got mine at Kroger) in case you O later than normal.  Good luck!!

[HOPING4AMIRACLE]

i would say to bd every other day. my dr told me to do it like that since doing it everyday would lower the spermies. if you can start testing on opk just do it!!! that way you make sure you don't miss it. i am going to pray for you big time!!!good luck!!!ssbd!


melissa