Bleeding after ET

[njoy420]

Can somebody please help me if bleeding after ET is OK? today is 11th day after the ET and 23rd is supposed to be the blood test day but have advanced to 22nd as the bleeding is becoming constant though not flowing at this stage (dont know if it will start flowing by eve which is concerning me now n m dead scared).. Please help me if anybody has experienced the same way I am going thru now....

[MEL4141]

I know how fortunate we are to have Alfie , our miracle conception, never having periods, plaqued by eating disorders, told wil never have childern, then miracusly threw out an egg and was fertilized. We will always be so greatful and know if we cant produce a sibling we have Alfie who has brought such joy to us, is it so wrong to want a sibling, i do feel selfish when i read the heartbreaking stories on here to have one child, then i read others in the news that women have 4, 5, 6, 7 children, don't care for them just get benefit, it doesnt make sense. My heart is with you and your chance to have one, sending all my love melissaxxxx

[njoy420]

Hi..
Thats a very good sign, thin lining.. Good luck..and hope u get successful in this teatment.. and yes, I might most probably do the acupunture also..I dont wanna take any chances...m desperate to be a mom... I envy u ..at least u have a child....

keep posting...

and mostly stay positive ..destress urself....listen to to good soothing music....

love,
Joy

[MEL4141]

What a lovely encouraging story, will remember that all through this cycle, got back from clinic , all ready to go, lining thin, so here goes third ivf. I too am thinking of acupuncture, what to do everything to maximise chances, but like you don't know how it really helps. start menopur and burserelin tonight, best wishes to you and wil update lots love melissax

[njoy420]

Hi...

Good luck to u...I believe in "King Solomon's story"..when we were kids....King Solomon was so scared that he will be defeated in the battle..he ran away to hide himself and tool shelter in a cave.. there he noticed a spider.. the spider was trying to make its web..But each it tries, it would fall back..kept on trying until, he made it and made its web...after this long observation, King Solomon realised that if a small creature like that spider can do something , why cant he as a King fight for his kingdom, King Solomon won the battle....

So frens, never give up hope.... Hope makes one keep alive and we want that we need to have HOPE...


Take care,love always,
joy

[MEL4141]

Verysorry to hear your news, but glad you're getting some strength to think " what is the next step forward". I am on my way now to clinic to have scan to se if can begin meds for third ivf, keep posting updates lots love melissax

[njoy420]

Hi,

I just got my report a min ago.. and its sad to say that the result is negative but u know what, sharing the experience with u all has made me feel stronger n m ready to face the challenge of life!!!! I will be consulting my doc again and will be trying for the FET soon.. Hope the best in me  and wish u all the very best of luck.. will keep posted..

Thank u

[Verysoon]

I am praying for you! Please keep us updated on your progress

[MEL4141]

I will be thinking of you even more tomorrow, send so much good luck and wishes for your blood test,hang in there, its never over till its over.
Whatever your result is this forum is great for support as we've all been through the good bits and bad bits, lots and lots lov melissaxx

[njoy420]

Hi,  
Thank u for the support n bringing the reality as well... I did speak with my doc as well... Told me it's a 50:50 situation here until the result of my blood test comes out i.e. tomorrow... I know what the outcome will be but m trying to have the positive thought, the other 50 chance...so m keeping my fingers crossed... M in total bedrest today...
Will post the outcome no matter what the result is n will share with u all...
Love,
Joy

[njoy420]

Congratulation on ur first natural conceivement...I hope n pray miracle haapens with me as well.... Tommorrow is my blood test... I know n m prepared for the outcome ... Me n my husband cried together last nite when I broke the news abt my bleeding to him when he came back frm work but he says that we will keep trying ( I have 4 frozen embryoes) no matter how much it cost... N m happy that I get support from my loving husband... M 35 now... N thank u so much for being there n sharing my thoughts... I appreciate that... N good luck with ur hope again.. My prayer is with u... Love, Joy

[Verysoon]

Hi there, I too had bleeding/spotting about 5 days after my 5 day transfer. I did get pregnant but it did not result in good news. I Mc at 4wks 3 days. I pray that yours doesnt end up like that. I know this is not what you wanted to hear but I just wanted to let you know. Listen to your body every woman is different. It could be implantation bleeding, which would be a very good thing!

[MEL4141]

Hello yes that is my toddler Alfie, who was our miracle baby conceived naturaly 2 years ago. I say miracle as i havnt had periods for years due to eating problems and dr's said my egg reserve is so poor, they couldnt believe i conceived! Anyway we have always wanted a sibling but so undersand that if it doesnt happen we are so, so fortunate to have Alfie. We have spent all our savings, had a m/c and a neg and now I am having one last ivf in 2 weeks, our chances are very low but we are having one last shot. I too had cysts before ivf but these disolved and we began the ivf treck. I really wish you well, how old are you, please don't give up if this cycle doesnt work. We are in England where like the states is very expensive, if my third try doesnt work we will carry on naturally but as I am just 41 my age is really against me and I have very poor egg quality. let me know how all goes, thinking of youxxx  

[njoy420]

Thank u for the support....

I do doubt myself to be positive with the way m feeling now... did u try again for the IVF....
I do see ur holding a baby which I presume is urs.. coz as for my case, this is my only hope to start a family and I ahd removed cyst twice which concerns me if these cud be the cause...coz the doc told me till the transplant time that everything is fine..n was hoping that at last I can be a mother...
But since this bleeding, m getting more tensed....Though I doubt but I want to be hopeful until I get the blood test done on 22nd and know the result...


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[MEL4141]

Hello i'm sorry you're going through this and as i went through the same i have to tell you it wasnt good news. I bled from day 11 and got a negative,my consultant says the embryo tried to stick to the uterus but came away, i also bled in my first ivf after getting a positive and that was classed as early miscarriage. But hang in there as some women do bleed and still get a positive, sorry cant be more positive. my best wishes and let me know how all goes, lots love melissax