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175665 tn?1306459024

So I'm definitely losing the baby

I had my levels checked today and they dropped to 1400, that means they've dropped a 1,000 since Monday.  Yet I saw an ultrasound yesterday that showed a healthy pregnancy.  Amazing isn't it. I'm sad and shocked and don't want to go through the pain of another miscarriage, this makes number 4.  And it doesn't get easier or less painful with each new one, it only gets worse.  I don't want this to happen. All I did was pray and God let this happen again. Why does my body keep killing my babies?  What's wrong with me?  This was an accident, we were using birth control and I got pregnant.  So this means I can't even ttc again after losing this one.  It's horrible and I don't know how to handle this.
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175665 tn?1306459024
He said no trying.  So that's going to be hard.  And no my doctor hasn't sent me for any testing.  They just told me this is normal and happens in about 20% of pregnancies. That's retarded in my opinion.  I had 3 miscarriages before I got pregnant with my son in January of last year.
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I'm so sorry, mami2karina. I've had two miscarriages myself, and we're currently trying again, but that's my greatest fear...that we'll continue to experience these losses. It seems to take us so long to get pregnant every time, and then to have it end in a miscarriage is just devastating! Have you had any tests done to see if there is a clinical reason for your losses? I know you said you're on birth control, but will you be trying again?

Take care of yourself, and try not to lose hope!
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175665 tn?1306459024
I haven't been to an RE.  That's the thing.  We weren't even trying, this happened while I was on birth control.  I just went in a couple of weeks ago for my 4 month papsmear and they told me I was pregnant.  They were renewing my bc prescription so they did a urine test and it came back positive.
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443102 tn?1222125946
I'm so sorry you are going through all of this.  I don't know what to say because I don't know your situation.  Have been going to an RE?  I am sure you have had tests ran, etc.  What is your story?  How long have you been trying and what is your doctor's plan for you?
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