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216278 tn?1308861082

I said I wouldn't do this...

And now, I am sitting here, a ball of nerves and an anxious twit!!  I finally called the RE this morning, as I have been sick all week and thinking that if I am not pregnant, I need to get to a doctor to see what is wrong!  The RE said "let's get you in for a blood test today so we'll have the results tomorrow."  That sounded like a good idea, but now I am nervous for them!  I want this so badly and the idea of hearing (again) sorry, you aren't pregnant sickens me...but it's almost like it's too hard to believe that I am since we've been doing this so long!  Does that make sense to anyone?
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216278 tn?1308861082
Thanks for all the positive juice!!  I am just waiting for the call, now.  The funny thing is that this is the one month that I haven't been stressed about all of this because there was nothing I could really do.  RE said, after the lap, that everything looked good and we would just wait to see if AF showed and to have 'fun' whenever we felt up to it.  I don't chart or do OPK's and I wasn't even watching the cycle days, because they kept telling me that the lap would throw everything off...SOOOOO DH and I just bd'd every other day for the ENTIRE month (which was kinda fun...) and then I slept all day last Sat. and started feeling really sick on Monday...and stay yukky feeling all week!  So, we'll see...as soon as I talk with RE, I am calling DH with whatever the news is and then I will post!
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237300 tn?1231454718
It makes sense to me...I would go get tested too if I was you.  Believe me I've been living in the bed or the bathroom for about 2 weeks...haha...every morning it's the same thing BBT then POAS...and I think this is more confusing then just bding and not worrying about it.  I'm so stressed my temps are up and down...my OPk's neg.   The lines went from no line, to a line,to a dark line (but still a neg.) to a very light line.  I'm about ready to throw it all out the window and just bd without knowing what is going on with my body....believe me I understand....good luck and I hope you get a BFP!
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216278 tn?1308861082
Hmmm...it'll come to me at some weird time in my life! I just know that i know it!  Weird
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208686 tn?1293030503
No, but close, I grew up in Athens, my best friend lived in Amesville so I was there more then home..lol....  and My husband just bought this land 3 1/2 years ago, married me New Years Eve 06 and just finished our house and moved in.. in May. My husband still does his business in Columbus, that's where he is now :(. But went to the school district here (Federal Hocking) all my life.
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216278 tn?1308861082
I feel like I knew someone who lived in Amesville....have you lived there all your life?
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208686 tn?1293030503
You are very welcome, and you know.. if it does come back BFN... its just really saying BFNRN.. big fat not right now.. That baby knows when it's coming to join you. I really hope and pray that you get your  BFP SOON!! Then I can come up to Columbus and we can go baby shopping together!! O that would be fun!!
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216278 tn?1308861082
Thanks, Patty!  I realize it's not hard to do right now, but you made me cry with your sweet words!  I can't even think about it right now but of course, work slowed up so much that I have nothing to do right now!!  Great, huh? :P
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208686 tn?1293030503
If you wasn't nervous then that would be saying something! We women worry over the smallest things, that's our jobs! I think things are going to be fine and the only thing I would worry about is if I tested and it was infact too early. But remember here... I am the one who didn't show a BFP until CD 35! So yes, I know what it's like to worry. You are going to be okay and the worrying is great. It shows how much this means to you!! You so deserve to be a new mommy!! I will be saying a special prayer for you!!

Patty
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242143 tn?1215470308
It makes perfect sense. When you've been trying for sooooo long, it seems impossible to imagine that the test could come back positive..we're so used to negative.  It's sooo scary isn't it?
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195145 tn?1255636447
It makes all the sense in the world!
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178590 tn?1294176767
yeah.....I'll go today and get a beta too....I'll get my results in about 2 hours so we can come and compare our pregnancy symptoms in the morning.  I know I hate hearing those aweful words too.  Monday the nurse wasn't even a little considerate when she told me either... it was terrible have you taken any HPT's?
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