delayed ejaculation

[Toddy]

dear all,
I have been dating this man who has ejaculation problems. the 1ts time we had sex, we went for like 4hrs and he didnt *** at all. he said he enjoyed himself and he was very satisfied. i also notice that the tip of his manhood become so hot like someone who had ejaculated, the 2nd time he we went like for two hrs and he still didn come. i asked him if he had a problem and he said he didnt have any, infact he can *** whenever he wants to, the 3rd we went for 2hrs and he finally came, but very little *** came out.after cuming he cudnt raise to the occasion again, he was very weak and tired.
4th time he didnt com at all after 3hrs. my worry is can this man make me pregrant??. does he have fertitly problem and what are the chances of this man to father children. the man has proposed and i need to know what am up agansit. i love the man and children or no children, i wonna be with him.

thanks

toddy

[babywanted556]

I don't know the time frame of ejaculation could lead to infertility or not.  My DH can also control himself for hours and days....and sure when it comes, he is completely collapsed.  He got low sperm count lately because taking high blood pressure and cholesterol pills.  He's 50 yrs old now. In my case, I think we got male factor because of the age and medicine rather than ejaculaiton.

[Sheri1972]

My suggestion would be, if he says he can ... er... release... any time he wants as he claims, tell him to get on with it after 30 minutes or so because you're getting tired! :P  Four hours.. good lord woman.  That would kill me.

If this truely seems to be a problem with him, definitely have him see a doctor about it.  He could have a prostate problem which is very dangerous.

Sheri

[me2angels]

ask him if he's on a medication

[SDScientist]

If you are worried, have him get a sperm analysis and see a urologist about the ejaculation timing issues.  That is the only way to know.  Maybe he has some sort of blockage?  Find out before you marry him since if there is a problem this can be a big hurdle to jump...trust me I am living it now!!  Even if you know you will marry him no matter what, if there is an issue and you want children you will want to start working on it sooner rather than later.